Special things

okay guys what things do you like your girl friend to do to ya in the bedroom or just special little things anywhere. girls what have you done for your guy to let him know you care special little things in the bedroom or anywhere. me and my guy has been dating for 4 months I want to let him know I care and I wntr to keep him happy in te bedroom and outside. what dirty little secerts do guys like to hear while out in public and in the bedroom?? do gus really like their girlfriends to give them lapdances and strip for them??

of course guys like lapdances and stripteases. the best way to keep him happy is surprise him everynow and then, sexually or not. and the best way to let him know you care is to tell him. invite him over one time and have a night dedicated to pleaseing him all night and him only. you know what kind of things he likes so just plan something you know that he would love.

It doesnt matter to me what people think of My advice or opinions. Read them, but please dont make snide remarks about them. Its things I've learned through the mistakes that I have made. Its just how I feel about certain situations.

Why do so many girls think they have to keep their bfs happy in the bedroom? Are you married? Worry about keeping your fiance or husband happy. Bfs come and go. This is why so many girls get so depressed, hurt and angry, because of everything theyve done with their bfs! (like trying to keep them happy sexually, giving their virginity up to them) They think that if they give into him sexually that they will have him for life. When in reality>a lot of young boys get bored after awhile, and break up with their gfs, and move on to someone new!They think they are "in love", but its not true! If a boy stays with a girl for a year thats great, but that only means the hurt is more umbearable when he leaves! I have a wonderful boyfriend now, and we do so many things to have fun. We have our quiet times, but having sex is not the bases for our relationship. If you dont have a solid foundation in your relationship just by being together and doing normal things you shouldnt have to worry about losing him!! If you have to worry about keeping your boyfriend happy in the bedroom, then you DONT have a solid relationship!

This is because men are perfectly capable of engaging in sex before they forge emotional bonds with a woman -- and those raging hormones can easily disguise themselves as feelings of love.
Lust is especially dangerous because it causes a man to think with his crotch and throw all reason and logic to the wind. When a man's in lust he doesn't care if he and his partner have anything in common. He's not interested in where she comes from or where she's going. His brain is only focused on using his key to unlock the door to the secret cave.
*Sex is not love! Our culture has taught us that sex and love are one in the same. This is a lie. Sex is a beautiful activity that is wonderful when practiced within the boundaries of a marriage. Sex is the completion of the binding of two people within a marriage; it is a God-given gift*.
**Because premarital sex is not love, it only leads to pain and disappointment for those who are seeking that love. The Bible says that when two people are married, they become one flesh Sex is consummation of that union. When two people break off their relationship after having sex, it is like ripping apart flesh. This is why two teenagers will struggle so much and become so dependent on those they give their bodies to. Premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. **It is not love!**
Its your choice on what you do, but in the end, I hope it changes your points of view like it has mine!!

My boyfriend loves getting sexy text messages at work. He also likes it when I greet him at the door with hugs and kisses, or massage his back for him... little things like smiling at him all the time too. You have only been together for 4 months, have you been friends longer or are you still trying to get to know one another?

I have only known him a few weeks before we went out!1 four months is a long time for me this is my longest relationship