Speak up

Today I found out there is a teacher that t has put hands on my son ( as in pulling him by the arm and shirt ). My son doesn't tell me thing else thing I found out thought my niece they go to the same class . She always looks out her because . When she came over and told me I ask my son and he was looking down as if he did something wrong ,I told him he did nothing bad I just need to know these thing to help him better . Them he started to cry . So I stop talking about but later I found out that they both miss recess and free time at school . This is not the first time I had to talk to the school they always back up the teachers and ever lokk in to it . Some please help .

It DOES NOT matter weather the child did something or not that teacher had no right to put her hands on him.If it was his mother doing that to him the school would not hesitate to turn her in.so what is the difference between her or the teacher.You need to call department of social services and talk to them.don't let the dean or anyone else just brush it off.

I would call the dean of students,or the superintender.
If they dont pull through,maybe itd be bast to make a police report??

taking it to the highest branch in the school dont just go to the school get into the govner office and if you have to change t he kids to a different school

if they seem to keep on doing it I would turn them in if I were you I wouldnt let them put there hands on my kid that is low down an sorry I would turn it in to the police

make phone calls to the higher ups of the school, a lawyer, and your local media outlets (radio, news). it is not right for the school to blow off numerous reports of abuse. also, go to the next PTA meeting and bring it up. I bet the school would respond a little more quickly to an angry mob of parents.

UPDATE :
I HAVE GONE TO THE PTA AND THEY DON'T DO MUCH AND EVEN WENT TO THE DISTRACT OFFICE ON ABOUT THE SCHOOLS TEACHERS AND THEY SAY THEY'LL IN TO IT AND HAVE NEVER CALL ED BACK TILL I GO DOWN AND GET MY ANSWERS THIS CITY SUCK S. THEY HAVE CHANGE A LOT WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL .

WELL I JUST GOT BACK FROM PICKING UP MY SON . AND I WAS TALKING TO SUPER AND SHE WAS GOING TALK TO THE TEACHER TODAY AND SHE GOING TO CALL ME TOMORROW IF NOT SOMETHING THIS WEEK. BUT WHEN I WALK TO MY SON CLASS TO SHE KNOWS THAT SOMETHING IS UP because SHE DIDN'T SAY HI OR LOOK MY WAY .

she can't look you in the face because she knows she's done something wrong.

Sounds to me like your "one great kid" did something wrong, when you asked him about it and he got all upset looking down like he had done something wrong, that should have been your hint. Before accusing the teacher straight away, maybe ask your son or neice why the teacher did it. If the teacher was pulling him away to stop him hurting another child or himself, then you don't have a leg to stand on.
I'm sick and tired of people always taking the kids' side, if they misbehave then they should be punished. I'm all for the teacher in this case, and as your son was SO upset, then with any luck he learnt his lesson and won't misbehave again.

Ok, I don't know what happened with the kid and what he was doing, but are you saying that if a kid is beating up another one the teacher has "no right" to pull him off? A wee tug on the arm if the child is doing something bad and possibly hurting another kid is not wrong.

b1ff... I also disagree with you. it is not a teacher's place to physically discipline a child. if the child was doing something wrong, she could have handled it differently... she is supposed to have a better judgement than the children. I see where you are coming from. parents that coddle their children annoy me too. children also show shame when they have been abused. I hope you are never in situation like this one where you have to decide if your child's shame is deserved or not... it is a terrible position to be in.

look ... son is my son and I will always have his back and yes my son is a great kid . but briersbabe02 is right no one should touch your kids. ..

but that not all... well when I call the school and told them want was going on the teacher son got my son by the ear and call me at home saying that my son was playing with other kids she had heard him .saying he had a gun and he was going to shoot them ..I came over to the school and I had the talk to the teacher and the dean it just so happen that I called yesterday about the teacher and now your calling about my son today .I had talk to my son in front of the people and he was playing cops . but has ear was red like apple red and I told her she is no longer my son teacher and she not lay and hand on him .so tomorrow I going to the main office to see about that teacher >>

funadvice, b1ff :
now if you had kids your tell me that you guy s would sitt on your as* and not do anything ... them u don't understand want it is to be a mom or dad

WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL THE POLICE? Somebody at the top said something about making a police report. The teacher need to be pulled out the classroom pending an investigation. You don't know if she has done the same to other kids or how long she has been doing it.
I hope you get this straightened out soon. If a child is disruptive that is what the principal if for. A teacher seperatin two child from fighting is different from pulling a child by the shirt or ear.
GOOD LUCK!