Should I make myself stop liking him?

ireally like this boy but he has a girfriend should I make myself stop likeinq him
?

Hey think I just put an answer on your previous question lol

well...I guess it depends...

think of it the other way around. you have a boyfriend but theres this other girl. would you want her to stop liking him?

***ireally like this boy but he has a girfriend should I make myself stop likeinq him
?***

Yes.

P.S. - Quit asking the same yes/no question multiple times, or you'll be banned.

Don't know what your problem is captainassassin! Just leave the girl alone!
Anyway, believe it or not, there's more than one side to very story!

Lesson one - I'm an Aries. I don't back down and I DON'T do what people tell me to do! Just get a life why don't you?
You sound a bit bitter to me

***Lesson one - I'm an Aries.***

Ditto... care to find out who has the harder head?

Be my guest!

Posting the same question multiple times in a row, violates the terms of service for this site. She obviously didn't read the terms of service, so I had to make her aware.

There was nothing said that would indicate that I'm 'bitter' about anything. But I suppose that was the only adjective you could produce with your limited vocabulary. You felt like saying something, but couldn't think of anything VALID... similar to the 'get a life' comment... simply juvenile, random and incorrect.

Since you feel some NEED to make something out of nothing, if you decide on making a habit of DEFENDING rule breakers, you'll probably receive warnings too.

Hahahahaha! This made me laugh for AGES!

It takes a while to get used to the site, and everyone deserves to be let off once, for goodness sake (ooh look, I didn't use 'god' - don't believe in all that anyway).

Do you honestly think it's 'clever' to publicly have a go at a 13-year-old? To me, sounds a bit horrible - I would've at least explained things through funmail NICELY!

My 'limited vocabulary' earned me the 2nd highest English A-level in the country 2 years back.

'but you couldn't think of anything VALID' - to be perfectly honest, what I was actually thinking isn't repeatable, so I came up with the nicest way of saying it.

Juvenile...hahaha! If you knew me, and who I associate with, you would NOT be calling me juvenile! Random - fair enough, I'm random and proud of it - wouldn't want to be like everyone else, that would be utterly pointless. Incorrect - I've yet to see that.

I'm making something out of the fact that you just attacked the poor girl. Ever heard of being subtle?

I'll defend whoever I want to defend when I want to. And neither YOU nor anyone else will ever change that. If it gets me a load of warnings, so be it - I'm not going to sit quietly in a corner and do nothing.

Hmm...you sure do go on for a guy who's rated my photo as good.

***Hahahahaha! This made me laugh for AGES!***

Oh, that must be why it took you so long to respond...

***It takes a while to get used to the site, and everyone deserves to be let off once, for goodness sake (ooh look, I didn't use 'god' - don't believe in all that anyway).***

Yeah... 'alien worship' isn't that far off...

***Do you honestly think it's 'clever' to publicly have a go at a 13-year-old? To me, sounds a bit horrible - I would've at least explained things through funmail NICELY***

Well, if that's how your mind works... they have medication for that, you know. You could've funmailed ME for this little 'whinging session' of yours. However, it would appear that you can only GIVE instructions, but not follow them yourself.

***My 'limited vocabulary' earned me the 2nd highest English A-level in the country 2 years back.***

So, then it would seem your past academic achievements have lost their effect. You could always re-educate yourself.

***'but you couldn't think of anything VALID' - to be perfectly honest, what I was actually thinking isn't repeatable, so I came up with the nicest way of saying it.***

...again...nothing valid.

***Juvenile...hahaha! If you knew me, and who I associate with, you would NOT be calling me juvenile!***

Your childish behavior has no bearing on who you associate with, nor why they tolerate it.

***Random - fair enough, I'm random and proud of it - wouldn't want to be like everyone else, that would be utterly pointless.***

There's a lot of people your age who are both juvenile and random. So you're not alone.

***I'm making something out of the fact that you just attacked the poor girl. Ever heard of being subtle?***

Yeah, that WAS subtle.

***I'll defend whoever I want to defend when I want to. And neither YOU nor anyone else will ever change that. If it gets me a load of warnings, so be it - I'm not going to sit quietly in a corner and do nothing.***

...and it could get you banned. So you should consider putting a filter on that ''uncompromisingpainintheass'' software you're running.

***Hmm...you sure do go on for a guy who's rated my photo as good.***

Your personality flaws have no correlation whatsoever, to the plant life in your photo. No matter how much you want it to...

No, it took me so long to respond because I have others things to do.

Speaking of the 'I funmailing you' bit, I see you only give instructions as well, and you don't follow them.

If you're having a go at my religion, I'd just stop right there. I really don't want to go down that path, I don't want to subject even you to THAT argument.

Well, I wouldn't expect you to understand how my mind works - you're a man. You'll never understand that. I suppose just because women's minds are a little bit different, it's hard to understand that they don't work in the same way, so blame it on a mental problem.

My 'past academic achievements' are still perfectly fine and in use. I work for HSL a governement project and my particular division just happens to look at the human mind and brain. There's other things I do in the job besides that, but I'm not allowed to say.

Hehe...it's been so long since I was called childish...I mean I'm not a typical teenager, what with thehealth problems and everything, so I look at life as take each day as it comes, and I think that's a pretty grown-up attitude to take personally.

The word 'juvenile' always reminds me of gangs, for some reason. And I was never in one...then again, I'm not the type to run round with my mates getting drunk at the weekend or whatever.

That WAS subtle? Hmm...I can definitely see why you say you're an Aries.

Sorry, fear of getting banned doesn't bother me. I only joined this site to get one question answered and it was. I don't really need to be on here any longer, so if I get banned, it's no big deal.

I don't much understand your last statement. What has my personality got to do with my photographs? And by the way, you obviously have personality flaws too to keep responding to me, trying to outwit me.

***Speaking of the 'I funmailing you' bit, I see you only give instructions as well, and you don't follow them.***

...that's a reach. It was YOUR idea to ''explain things through funmail NICELY'' ...not mine.

***If you're having a go at my religion, I'd just stop right there. I really don't want to go down that path, I don't want to subject even you to THAT argument.***

I have no problem with ''zealot wrangling'' ...its one of my regular hobbies on this site.

***Well, I wouldn't expect you to understand how my mind works - you're a man. You'll never understand that. I suppose just because women's minds are a little bit different, it's hard to understand that they don't work in the same way, so blame it on a mental problem.***

...self-qualifying, now? You're not really telegraphing any 'complexity' at all; and it has nothing to do with you being a girl. You're very simply trying to make something SOUND bad, when it really isn't. A bit like antagonism, only not as clever.

***My 'past academic achievements' are still perfectly fine and in use. I work for HSL a governement project and my particular division just happens to look at the human mind and brain. There's other things I do in the job besides that, but I'm not allowed to say.***

...more self-qualifying. That's a common sign of insecurity, you know. We can just blame it on your age for now.

***The word 'juvenile' always reminds me of gangs, for some reason. And I was never in one...then again, I'm not the type to run round with my mates getting drunk at the weekend or whatever.***

Random... but a GOOD characteristic...

***Sorry, fear of getting banned doesn't bother me. I only joined this site to get one question answered and it was. I don't really need to be on here any longer, so if I get banned, it's no big deal.***

Go ahead. I will only tell you what's right, I won't MAKE you do it...

***I don't much understand your last statement. What has my personality got to do with my photographs?***

Nothing. That's why I can rate your photo high, yet continue to talk down to you. Care to explain why you brought it up in the first place?

***And by the way, you obviously have personality flaws too to keep responding to me, trying to outwit me.***

I'm not really trying, you're making it very easy. And my numerous flaws aren't a factor when babysitting antagonistic e-brats...

You started this, you commented first. I the explaining things through funmail nicely was meant for you and the questioner.

Zealot wrangling? What gives you the impression I even believe in a god?

Oh believe me, my mind is complicated. You have no idea who I am...probably better that way.

You know you're right. I am insecure. Anyone in my position would be.

Hehe...can't get drunk it'd kill me...what with the heart problems and being allergic to alcohol. Tried once...bad idea

I brought my photo up in the first place because you rated it just before I replied to you. Just in my thoughts was all.

So I read you're 30? You like spending your time arguing with random 20-year-old girls? Now that's what I call an antagonistic e-brat.

Sorry. You can't rate my photo high and continue to talk down to me. I'm the exact same person.

Anyway, I mustn't be all that bad...my b/f likes me. A lot. I asked him about our conversation because he caught me typing a reply and he said it's utter rubbish. And he'd be babysitting you lol

Aww look at that...gushing at the over protective boyfriend...sorry

***You started this, you commented first. I the explaining things through funmail nicely was meant for you and the questioner.***

...right... YOUR instructions. Don't give them if you can't follow them yourself.

***Zealot wrangling? What gives you the impression I even believe in a god?***

There's more than one definition for 'zealot' and 'zeal' and 'zealous' ...you get lumped into the ''believer of something you can't prove'' category.

Oh believe me, my mind is complicated. You have no idea who I am...probably better that way.

Ooh... a variation of the ''you don't know me.'' retort... juvenile also...

***So I read you're 30? You like spending your time arguing with random 20-year-old girls? Now that's what I call an antagonistic e-brat.***

Only if they're foolish enough to argue back, when I'm RIGHT, which is most of the time. And it doesn't take much time at all.

***Sorry. You can't rate my photo high and continue to talk down to me. I'm the exact same person.***

WRONG. Because I commented on the foliage, not YOU... pay attention.

***I mustn't be all that bad...my b/f likes me***

Wow... sad... you're throwing your boy into this too? Of course he likes you. Heterosexual boys often like vaginas. Maybe you emit more admirable qualities in person, that you simply can't conveigh in type.

My instructions - I didn't follow them because you didn't, and you're older, you're meant to be wiser.

I'm a believer of something I CAN prove.

What's wrong with saying you don't know me? You don't! Thought I'd best point it out. It's not juvenile, just fact.

'Only if they're foolish enough to argue back, when I'm RIGHT, which is most of the time'

Sounds like you think WAY too much of yourself there. There's no right and wrong, just what people THINK is right or wrong, and how they choose to act on that.

'WRONG. Because I commented on the foliage, not YOU...pay attention'

Then go find some nice little photos of leaves and comment on them then. There was nothing special about that foliage, it's not even real. If you're interested in foliage, I'll upload loads of pics of my garden for you.

My 'boy' threw himself into this. He's far from a boy in my opinion. And he's not like that, we're in a committed relationship. Yeah I must admit more admirable qualtiies in person...and typing because I sure do get enough stalkers...

I can't be bothered to argue anything else in this message - got pressing problems with lawyers must deal with that instead of a petty internet feud.

***My instructions - I didn't follow them because you didn't, and you're older, you're meant to be wiser.***

Yes, I AM wiser. But regardless, choosing to comment via funmail vs. openly in a thread, is dependent upon the individuals' opinions, neither is right nor wrong. YOU contradict YOUR opinion by stating it, but not following it. This must be over your head, since you're having such a hard time understanding it. But it's also juvenile to blame others for your mistakes.

***I'm a believer of something I CAN prove.***

...only in your mind.

***What's wrong with saying you don't know me? You don't! Thought I'd best point it out. It's not juvenile, just fact.***

Pointing out the obvious only shows that you're running out of valid statements.

***Sounds like you think WAY too much of yourself there. There's no right and wrong, just what people THINK is right or wrong, and how they choose to act on that.***

That's s very simple-minded view. There's actually BOTH, and you might begin to realize that when you're older and wiser.

***Then go find some nice little photos of leaves and comment on them then. There was nothing special about that foliage, it's not even real. If you're interested in foliage, I'll upload loads of pics of my garden for you.***

Still hung up on the picture, huh? You've REALLY started scraping the bottom. Your naive mind just can't understand how I can argue with you, while saying something positive too? Let's see... hmm... I commented on the photo, I also noted that you don't or didn't abuse alcohol with delinquent friends, a positive trait. Of course, being ''allergic to alcohol'' negates that commendation, since it wasn't really your choice to drink or not. I find it amusing that you're irritated MORE by a positive comment from me, rather than a negative one. Would you've preferred that I rate your picture low, and commented: ''Eww... gran feet.'' ??

***My 'boy' threw himself into this. He's far from a boy in my opinion. And he's not like that, we're in a committed relationship. Yeah I must admit more admirable qualtiies in person...and typing because I sure do get enough stalkers...***

Strange, is this the same boy who you 'really like' that was calling you for the first time recently? Committed already? How impulsive, or are you being deceitful about one or the other? Or is it both?

Hmm...you criticize me for not writing through funmail, yet here you are, still doing it.

I can prove what I believe whenever you'd like.

I am running out of valid statements. I just don't want to waste my time on this I have far better things to do. Sorry if you spend so much time thinking them up.

I'll say again, there's no right and wrong - it depends how someone looks at a situation. And if their judgement is one or the other, that's all it is - opinion. Not solid fact. Therefore there is no right or wrong.

I would've preferred you to rate my photo low to coincide with your overall opinion on me, yes. Haha, my feet are horrible, I've broken my toes more times than I'd like to remember!

I can drink alcohol if I wish - in moderation - but I chose not to. I like to feel in control of myself, and not like some drunk lol.

Hehe that question was one my friend asked me to ask the group if that makes sense. I know full well how to sound sexy on a phone, but she doesn't, she's only 14 and I really didn't want to explain. My relationship is a little different than the norm. Me and my guy are totally open and faithful to each other, even though according to our religion, we don't have to be. That said...we can't actually publicly announce it...well, not until we've talked to his lawyers anyway.

***Hmm...you criticize me for not writing through funmail, yet here you are, still doing it.***

Since you can only talk in circles now, I'll just follow along. Writing through funmail was YOUR idea, not mine. YOU brought it up, so YOU should follow it. Now, is any of that STILL not making sense? Or do you need to make another lap?

***I can prove what I believe whenever you'd like.***

No you can't... nobody can. But feel free to try... many try... ALL fail.

***I am running out of valid statements. I just don't want to waste my time on this I have far better things to do. Sorry if you spend so much time thinking them up.***

Like I said before, this doesn't require much time for me at all, and you're making it too easy.You keep saying you don't have time, have better things to do, etc. But you're still here, making time to continue. So quit making excuses.

***I'll say again, there's no right and wrong - it depends how someone looks at a situation. And if their judgement is one or the other, that's all it is - opinion. Not solid fact. Therefore there is no right or wrong.***

Okay then... go ahead... prove your religious views are RIGHT...

***I would've preferred you to rate my photo low to coincide with your overall opinion on me, yes.***

Well I didn't... deal with it.

***I can drink alcohol if I wish - in moderation - but I chose not to. I like to feel in control of myself, and not like some drunk lol.***

...not much of an allergy.

***Hehe that question was one my friend asked me to ask the group if that makes sense. I know full well how to sound sexy on a phone, but she doesn't, she's only 14 and I really didn't want to explain. My relationship is a little different than the norm. Me and my guy are totally open and faithful to each other, even though according to our religion, we don't have to be. That said...we can't actually publicly announce it...well, not until we've talked to his lawyers anyway.***

Oh my, such a long-winded excuse... and unoriginal. And you need legal council before you publicly announce that you're open and faithful? Okay...

It's so fortunate you've decided it's important enough, and found more free-time to whinge.

YOU said you wanted to talk through funmail, not publicly.

Okay, this is going to have to be quick because I've got a psycho emailing me and I have that to deal with...

Unoriginal? Well, isn't that how life is most of the time. Whacks you in the backside when you least expect it. Nah, we don't need legal council to admit we're open and faithful. It's because he's in the West End gets a lot of press, and I'm pretty young. He wants the papers to know from us, not others.

***YOU said you wanted to talk through funmail, not publicly.***

No... I didn't. YOU brought it up, I merely responed to it.

You said this: ''Do you honestly think it's 'clever' to publicly have a go at a 13-year-old? To me, sounds a bit horrible - I would've at least explained things through funmail NICELY''

And I responded: ''You could've funmailed ME for this little 'whinging session' of yours. However, it would appear that you can only GIVE instructions, but not follow them yourself.''

...making any sense yet? Need another lap?