Social trouble

yeah so my whole life I've been pretty much a quiet person and this is starting to annoy me since im not really sociable. I can be if I wanted to but usually around someone I've known for years. I've abandoned a lot of my past friends cus they are all...

fake. I want to meet new people but its so hard to find true friends nowadays so I feel thats its useless sometimes. I've always had trouble talkin to girls too which is also a problem. I guess im just worried about what people think of me but I always try to tell myself idc but being a quiet person makes it that much harder cus you just dont know what to talk about, I mean you dont want to say anythign stupid especially around a girl that you possibly like. I want to know how to engage in a convo with girls and how to keep it at a level. if I like a girl how do I act? I dont even know what to put the rest into question. I kind of want a girlfriend but I dont see myself as an exciting person. im not like most guys and I cant think what I need help with, maybe someone can just answer what I wrote. sound pathetic?

well, just aproach a girl like you would aproach your mom. I know that may seem weird, but you dont want to sound like a creep, but you do want to sound a bit sentimental and caring towards her. not in a gay sence but just that you are a trustworthy guy that wants a meaningful friendship/relationship. (:

I know what you mean but lets say you looking at a beautiful girl and you want to talk to her. usually someone would be overwhelmed by her looks. I wouldnt want to come on too strong, just enough to get her number without sounding weird. what to talk about is the problem I guess and I dont want to ask stupid sh*t like oh so yeah hows school? sounds dumb to me. I want to talk about something that would let her know that im interested but dont want to giv it all away. you know..be smooth lol

I've always been the really shy one too -
I know for me when a guy likes me I just like him to be calm, don't do/say thing to show off for a girl because that's really a turn off. Just keep your cool and be patient. Talk to her about things you're interested in and find out things you may have in common with her. If when you're talk to her she's smiling a lot or seems really interested in talking to you then you could be like would you want to go out sometime. I live in a small town so I've always had trouble meeting guys so I joined a dating site and I've met SO many awesome locals on it and that's how I found my boyfriend. Seems like getting to know someone over the computer is less awkward.