What if i'm the other woman?

So I've been seeing this guy, and well he kinda has a girlfriend( yea keep your opions to urself on this please, I know I shouldnt be doing this) and well...I was just wandering if there is anyone else out there that is doing the same. I want to know...

what your opions are on this, on being the other woman?

when your the other woman your whole life is revolved around a lie and being second rate. if he thought you were good enough he would be with you wouldnt he?? not just when he has a spare minute or two. sometimes you fall on love when you least expect it but you know what? YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN BEING THE LIE HE TELLS HIS WOMAN WHEN HES LATE HOME SMELLING LIKE SEX !!! ditch him girl.xx

Okay...
First you come and ask this on a advice site and then you tell us to keep our opinions to ourselves, that doesn't make any sense, let alone you asking our opinions at the end of your question. Want to know mine... your a home wrecker. Plain and simple. I guess the truth hurts. I'm sure thats what your afraid of hearing... but, thats life.

Do you know what...
I've been 'the girlfriend' that had a cheating boyfriend. You should take a walk in 'the girlfriends' shoes and maybe your outlook would change. How would you feel if you were 'the girlfriend' instead of 'the other woman'? You would probley think she is the biggest sleaze bag in the world for sleeping with your man.

My thoughts: Come back when you have been the girlfriend. The girlfriend who has a boyfriend who is seeing the other woman- Then see if you really want to be that girl

Why arnt you his girlfriend? He doesnt make you a priority obviously so why see him?

alright, well ignore those two. they just dont understand it. but I get it... im not exactically the other woman... but im close to it... some may find this nasty- im not the other woman because I've got 4 men to choose from. yeah I know- but thats the way life is. your not dealt the hand you want but you've gotta play it anyways... I dont see the harm in being the other woman... its just another thing in life...

Hes cheating on his girlfriend, he will do it to you one day!
If your in it for the sex only, then by all means stay, because this cheater does NOT love you, nor will he leave his current partner for you, no matter what he tells you.

Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words, but you're just arent listening!

All judgements aside, he's with you because he wants a variety of sex partners. You may not even be the only other woman.

thank you all...and for the first response I got..this is for you

Yes I am well aware that I have come on an advice site..I dont want your opinons on me..I know what im doing..I want your opinions on this subject!

and brokenwings, I know what you mean thats what im doing know..thats just how life is..thank you for understanding!!!

your welcome, people are quick to judge when they shouldnt, im pretty sure if they found out that they were the other woman they wouldnt know what to do. so really why judge? walk a mile in someones shoes and you will realise why they are that way.