So confused...

okay ive asked this before but got no answer and im asking again cuz i really need some advice...my bff and my boyfriend claim to be brother and sister because they are so close but sometimes i feel like they are closer than wat they say they are! I...

mean my boyfriend tells me he loves me and everything (but i've been with a guy who told me he loved me and he was cheatin on me our whole relationship) and ive asked my friend and she told me she didnt like him and that she would never so something like that to me anyway!!! But i havent asked him because if im just being parynoid or jealous i dont want that to mean the end of our realtionship so somebody plzzz help me.

i think u suld just ask him .... coz u really need to know aye even if he anit at least u know for sure aye so just ask him just dont say it as in i think ur cheating on me say it as in wuld u ever go near my besst friend?

Ahh! Jealousy! Aren't we all a bit at times? I don't think you should feel bad about how you feel. If you've been lied to and hurt in the past it makes sens that you are a bit frightened of this happening all over again. First things first, this isn't your old boyfriend so try not to judge him or project your past relationship unto him. Is he really doing something that makes you doubt his faithfullness? This being said after having your trust broken it is also understandable that you could easily feel insecure and this is something your boyfriend should understand. This brother and sister thing might be their way of showing you that they both approve of your relationship and they say it to show you that they are good friends. They might be saying it to make you feel secure without knowing that it actualy makes you feel insecure. You did the right thing to talk about it with your bestfriend but you really need to talk about it with your boyfriend too. I wouldn't blatanly say : are you cheating on me with my bestfriend? But rather I'd explain your past and tell him you need to be reassured. Tell him that you love him so much that sometimes you feel insecure about how close he is with your bestfriend. He would have to be an idiot to break-up with you because you care and can feel a bit jealous at times. The real question is whether he can be understanding and reassuring and whether you can trust him and get over your past scars. Try to understand what it is that makes you feel jealous is it only the brother sister thing? Is it a trust issue with your bestfriend or him? Or is just old feelings that have nothing to do with this relationship but need to be adressed? Afterall, it can also be really nice that two people we adore get along.

I do think that u and him should at least sit down and talk. I am not sure what is the deal with them because i don't know either of them, but i think u should at least talk to him first and than her and see if they give u the same anwser.