How can i make it up to her that i chickened out of our shower?

Hey. So a couple days ago I had a chance to take a shower with my girlfriend. We've been going out for a little over 6 months and it sounded good to me. But in the moment, she didn't tell me to do anything, but instead just expected I'd come in. And...

I really wanted to but in the moment I was too self-consious about how I look in full glory and I was nervous... I know pathetic right? Any guy would do that. So the next day, we get another chance to do it and I still chicken out and now my girlfriend doesnt really want to do it anymore and I'm really upset at myself because I regret not doing it so much and my girlfriend says she doesn't care but I know she does.. It's just been a really emotional couple of days. What should I do now to make it up to her? We might have another chance to do it in a few days. Should I force her to do it then? Or how should I make myself not feel so bad and make it up to my girlfriend. Some advice please.

Be upfront and honest with her. Communicate with her and inform her that you became nervous and unsure as to whether she'd like what she'd see. At this point, she probably feels uncomfortable because she's not sure if you find her desirable. It's not pathetic! It's actually sweet if you think about it...because in all honesty, you REALLY like this girl. Otherwise, you wouldn't be sitting here asking strangers for advice. If it were me, I'd tell her the truth: (Whatever her name is), You are gorgeous to me...I felt uncomfortable yesterday because I wasn't sure if you'd find me as appealing as I find you...I'm so sorry if I came across that way. I was just nervous. I'd like to give it another try...because if I don't...I know that I'll regret it for the rest of my life. - or well something to that affect. Whatever you say - ensure that it is sensitive, that you reiterate that she is indeed beautiful, and that you want to satisfy her. Those are the key words. Hope this helps, it would work on me. ;o)

tell her that you love her and are srry and would love 2 try again then make it the best 'time' of her life

say...wana take a shower?? then she says...u mean it??then u say...if u want me 2!!

yea thanks for the advice. i actually did tell her y i didnt come in right after both times i didnt. but we got another chance and this time i went in lol kept tellin myself i was gonna whether i like it or not. and we've actually took 2 showers together since then :P so its all good now. always has been