Should I tell my mom that I'm bisexual?

Im a girl and I'm 15 .
im bi and im afraid 2 tell my mom because I feel she won't accept that. I believe she will tell me that im 2 young 2 know what I am. on top of that her and my grandma already thought I was.
my grandma told me that if I was thinking of being bi ,I shouldn't because thats a sin and I understand that but I just feel this way!!!
and what scares me about my mom is that when that subject came up, she didn't really have anything 2 say , and she seemed 2 b worried that I was!!!
SO MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I OR SHOULDNT I TELL HER THAT IM BI!?!?!?!?!?

Well, I am trying to find out the Sam thing. My girlfriend and I are both wondering if we should tell our parents.
I am afraid my mom will reject me and kick me out, or just give me the silent treatment.
I am afraid, because its not our fault for loving both the sexes, its just the way we are.
Its not like we wake up one day and say, 'Oh yeah I think I want to be bi, gay, lesbian'

Just tell her. If she chooses not to accept you for who you are, that's her problem.

being bi is not a sin it's perfectly fine if she loves you she should love you for who you are and in time she will except it.

she's your mom she loves you even when you kept something from her she will still accept you for who you are not what you are so just let it out

In your case, whether or not it is a sin is in the eye of the beholder. In this case, it doesn't matter if you think it's a sin or not. You're grandmother thinks it's a sin. And you're going to bring a world of headache onto yourself if you press the issue that you are bi-sexual.

Just keep this to yourself until you have your sexuality figured out. Your mother and grandma can speculate all they want. At this point, you don't really need to come out or admit or defend or hide yourself. The truth is, you're bisexual. Maybe you're all the way gay and halfway there. But if you are, this is something you need to come to terms with before inviting mom and grandma and the church and hell on earth all over it. It's hard enough to deal with on your own, you know?

Just step back and tell your grandmother and mother that your sexuality is something that is still in it's formative years and you appreciate their concern. There is no need to make it a family affair, just yet.

I can answer your question very easily. NO!!! if she's making you feel bad about who you are then you shouldn't tell her. when your out of the house then if you want you can tell her. she will love you in the end but it will take some getting use to. being who you are is not a sin. I'm Bi too, but I would never tell my parents that. I rarely even talk to them about important things in my life. I don't not tell her to keep her out. I don't tell her because she wouldn't get me. if you can't take it anymore and you need to talk to someone then tell a friend. Send me your E-mail address and I'll send you a song that will really help you. it's one of my favorite songs and I think you'll really like it. it'll make you feel better about your situation. trust me.

From someone who knows.
Kaci

yes you should becuase she needs to know that you are so they can help you solve your problem. you don't need to hide it from her anymore. so tell her as soon as posible!!!!!!!!!

well when you and your mom are talking start talking about bi people and ask her what she thinks of bi people........if she says somthing bad forget bout what she said and ask her 'Mom........what would you say if I sad I am bi?' and see what she says then just tell her that your bi

I went through the same thing at fourteen.It's best that you don't tell your mom but if you do then you should really tell her how you feel.

hey im bi and havent told my mom yet but here is what I would do tell her and say you are who you are and cant help it and its not a sin

no not yet let a couple years go by and let it die down and then tell

I know you dont want to hear this because you have probaly already heard it before. You dont know if you do or not yet, I had a friend who thought she was bi and she even tried dating a girl now we were 15 when this happened and after she and that girl broke up she thought hey im really not bi it wasnt what she thought she also went through a vergetarian stage too. When you are young you will go though a lot of stages and I wouldnt tell her till a few years went by and you know for sure this is how you feel because you might tell her and then you might change you mind. Make sure you really know how you feel before you do anything.

well if you think your bi then you are. when people tell you that your too young dont listen to them. yes there is a small chance that this could just be a phase but it also can be very real. basically the question that you asked isnt if your bi but if you should tell..well I think that being bi isnt really a big deal yr family doesnt need to no unless your actually full lez. so just don't stress.. rmeber your mom will always love you no matter how. my mom was exactly like that shs doesnt believe that such a young person can make such a big life descision, then one day she found out and now we always talk boiut it like its nothing, but its perfectly normal to feel that way. my advice isnt to tell her untill you find a actuall swerious relationship

good luck
btw my name is paige and im 13 and bi
u can im at luvviis4loosers

no you shouldn't my mom is aganist the whole bi thing.. one of my friends were and she just freaked out about us being alone.. I want to tell her but I know she wont accept me for who I am and give me a lot of crap about it.. just wait till your out of high school to tell her because then she cant do anything about it

im bi and I think you should

you should beter now than later

Yes,I thought my mom would think the same thing but my mom accepted it so I should hope that your mom would to.

grammy (yours) is right but (I am sorry lord) if you feel this way cool.I am too

grammy (yours) is right but (I am sorry lord) if you feel this way cool.I am too

I just recently found out I was bi. I told my two closest friends and they took it fine but they keep telling me that if it gets any worse I should tell my mom...and suposivly my mom is the 'cool' mom to everyone that hangs out at my house. But my mom has NEVER spoke a word about bisexuality EVER so I have no idea how she would take it..so im unsure too. just thought I would let you know your not the only one out there that feels the same way and has the question 'should I tell my mom'

you should just tell her cause I thought my mom wouldnt except it and she did so go for it.