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Should i tell my mom that i'm bisexual?

ha Asked by moni over 2 years ago, 20 answers.

Im a girl and I'm 15 .
im bi and im afraid 2 tell my mom because I feel she won't accept that. I believe she will tell me that im 2 young 2 know what I am. on top of that her and my grandma already thought I was.
my grandma told me that if I was thinking...

of being bi ,I shouldn't because thats a sin and I understand that but I just feel this way!!!
and what scares me about my mom is that when that subject came up, she didn't really have anything 2 say , and she seemed 2 b worried that I was!!!
SO MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I OR SHOULDNT I TELL HER THAT IM BI!?!?!?!?!?

Me and mah board:) Answered by bi2782 on Feb 15, 2008, 12:54AM

Well, I am trying to find out the Sam thing. My girlfriend and I are both wondering if we should tell our parents.
I am afraid my mom will reject me and kick me out, or just give me the silent treatment.
I am afraid, because its not our fault for loving both the sexes, its just the way we are.
Its not like we wake up one day and say, Oh yeah I think I want to be bi, gay, lesbian

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Answered by sailorman220 on May 20, 2007, 06:59PM
82 answers

Just tell her. If she chooses not to accept you for who you are, that's her problem.

sunshine Answered by cutieblondie on May 20, 2007, 07:02PM
46 answers

being bi is not a sin it's perfectly fine if she loves you she should love you for who you are and in time she will except it.

Answered by britt89 on May 20, 2007, 07:41PM
10 answers

she's your mom she loves you even when you kept something from her she will still accept you for who you are not what you are so just let it out

What The? Answered by juniperone on May 20, 2007, 08:59PM
575 answers

In your case, whether or not it is a sin is in the eye of the beholder. In this case, it doesn't matter if you think it's a sin or not. You're grandmother thinks it's a sin. And you're going to bring a world of headache onto yourself if you press the issue that you are bi-sexual.

Just keep this to yourself until you have your sexuality figured out. Your mother and grandma can speculate all they want. At this point, you don't really need to come out or admit or defend or hide yourself. The truth is, you're bisexual. Maybe you're all the way gay and halfway there. But if you are, this is something you need to come to terms with before inviting mom and grandma and the church and hell on earth all over it. It's hard enough to deal with on your own, you know?

Just step back and tell your grandmother and mother that your sexuality is something that is still in it's formative years and you appreciate their concern. There is no need to make it a family affair, just yet.

Answered by kacic2007 on May 20, 2007, 09:25PM
19 answers

I can answer your question very easily. NO!!! if she's making you feel bad about who you are then you shouldn't tell her. when your out of the house then if you want you can tell her. she will love you in the end but it will take some getting use to. being who you are is not a sin. I'm Bi too, but I would never tell my parents that. I rarely even talk to them about important things in my life. I don't not tell her to keep her out. I don't tell her because she wouldn't get me. if you can't take it anymore and you need to talk to someone then tell a friend. Send me your E-mail address and I'll send you a song that will really help you. it's one of my favorite songs and I think you'll really like it. it'll make you feel better about your situation. trust me. happy

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Answered by no_lover1 on May 21, 2007, 08:31AM

yes you should becuase she needs to know that you are so they can help you solve your problem. you don't need to hide it from her anymore. so tell her as soon as posible!!!!!!!!!

Brittany Answered by britt323 on May 22, 2007, 12:04PM
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well when you and your mom are talking start talking about bi people and ask her what she thinks of bi people........if she says somthing bad forget bout what she said and ask her Mom........what would you say if i sad i am bi? and see what she says then just tell her that your bi

sk8ter chick Answered by sk8terpunkkid on Jun 18, 2007, 06:56PM
142 answers

hey im bi and havent told my mom yet but here is what i would do tell her and say u are who u are and cant help it and its not a sin

Answered by birdylou on Jun 19, 2007, 08:04AM
3 answers

no not yet let a couple years go by and let it die down and then tell

Answered by djspco on Jul 01, 2007, 11:22PM
14 answers

I know you dont want to hear this because you have probaly already heard it before. You dont know if you do or not yet, i had a friend who thought she was bi and she even tried dating a girl now we were 15 when this happened and after she and that girl broke up she thought hey im really not bi it wasnt what she thought she also went through a vergetarian stage too. When you are young you will go though alot of stages and I wouldnt tell her till a few years went by and you know for sure this is how you feel because you might tell her and then you might change you mind. Make sure you really know how you feel before you do anything.

Answered by luvviis4loosers on Jul 05, 2007, 02:52AM
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well if you think your bi then you are. when people tell you that your too young dont listen to them. yes there is a small chance that this could just be a phase but it also can be very real. basically the question that u asked isnt if your bi but if you should tell..wel i think that being bi isnt rlly a big deal yr family doesnt need to no unless your actually full lez. so just dnt stress.. rmeber your mom will always love you no matter how. my mom was exactly like that shs doesnt believe that such a young person can make such a big life descision, then one day she found out and now we always talk boiut it like its nothing, but its perfectly normal to feel that way. my advice isnt to tell her untill u find a actuall swerious relationship

good luck
btw my name is paige and im 13 and bi
u can im at luvviis4loosers

ME!!!! Answered by babyangel0721 on Jul 15, 2007, 05:58PM
3 answers

no u shouldn't my mom is aganist the whole bi thing.. one of my friends were and she just freaked out about us being alone.. i wanna tell her but i know she wont accept me for who i am and give me alot of crap about it.. just wait till your out of high school to tell her because then she cant do anything about it

nate Answered by nate01 on Aug 05, 2007, 12:57AM
11 answers

im bi and i think you should

nate Answered by nate01 on Aug 05, 2007, 12:59AM
11 answers

you should beter now than later

mee Answered by bisexualandproud on Nov 09, 2007, 03:51PM
21 answers

Yes,I thought my mom would think the same thing but my mom accepted it so I should hope that your mom would to.

My Baby Answered by omsbabe2008 on Nov 26, 2007, 02:41PM
9 answers

grammy (yours) is right but (I am sorry lord) if you feel this way cool.I am too

My Baby Answered by omsbabe2008 on Nov 26, 2007, 02:41PM
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grammy (yours) is right but (I am sorry lord) if you feel this way cool.I am too

me and dallas Answered by haleylovesjb on Feb 23, 2008, 10:43PM
36 answers

I just recently found out I was bi. I told my two closest friends and they took it fine but they keep telling me that if it gets any worse I should tell my mom...and suposivly my mom is the cool mom to everyone that hangs out at my house. But my mom has NEVER spoke a word about bisexuality EVER so I have no idea how she would take it..so im unsure too. just thought I would let you know your not the only one out there that feels the same way and has the question should I tell my mom

is it cute? i love my dimples!! Answered by acal12 on Apr 11, 2008, 06:44AM
35 answers

you should just tell her cause I thought my mom wouldnt except it and she did so go for it.

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