Should I wait, I want him really bad!!

I'm 14 and my bfs almost 16, We've been going out for about 6 months now. We've made out and he's felt my boobs under my shirt and sh*t. I know he wants to go further, and I do too! I think he might tell a lot of people and I also think that it might be awkward. I really want him to go further, I get horny really easy, and just thinkin about him gets me horny sometimes!I want to go further because I can't handle it. I like to mas*urba*e and I haven't in 6 months!I get sp horny!!!I just want him so bad!Should I wait or what? I dont know!!someone please hel;p!!

dont do it then you are going to fell bab when you done

I know how you feel I feel the same way except the mas*urbat*ng part lol I just dont want him to tell so you really have to trust him a lot make shure he dont have a split personality so that he does not tell you one thing nad his frinds the other but if your in love then I say go for it

Girl, GIVE IT UP!!! You know you want to, so just do it! Who cares if all your friends think you're a total ho, and all of his friends make fun of you behind your back! It's so much fun to do it! and Do it and DOO ITTT!! ahahhahaha... so next time he's all horny and you are too, just go for it, and have a good time! Just be wary of all the STD's that can infect you, like AIDS and Herpes and stuff like that that doesn't have a cure, after all, if you're dating an older guy who wants to have sex, he probably already has had sex with like, a billion other whores like you, so you have to go to a clinic and get tested and let the DR shove yuckky painful things in there just to check you out, and to put you on a physically-mood-altering pill that you have to remember to take every single day, or you could give birth that that nasty jerks' baby... Until next time, girlies !:P

You are SO TOTALLY right, my friend! Men are nothing but dirty, lo-down, cheating piggies, and all of us ladies need to learn two things:

1) MEN SUCK!!!

2) MEN ARE DUMB!!!

and THAT, girlies, is all you need to know in order to get by in this world... plus, men need to have small brains and large wallets in order for it to be worth our time... then we conquer the small-minded dorks and will rule the high school!!!
YEAH!!!

First I have to say that you usually shouldn't listen to advice from women who start out by saying that men suck and men and dumb. Believe me, there are decent men in this world. *Brad Waves*

To answer you question, if you're worried about whether or not he's going to go bragging to his friends then he obviously isn't extrememly mature.

What you should ask is:
1. Am I ready to be a mother? because you know it's possible

2. Would this guy be responsible as a father?

If you can honestly say yes to both then have fun

well you didnt say if yall have actually done stuff I mean I know that you say that he has felt your boobs and that yall have made out.. but keep in mind that there are other things that you can do besides sex (dont know if thats what you were talking about when you were saying "going further" but if yall havnt done anything other then feeling eachother and makin out then I think you should do other things before you have sex... but its just my opinion. hope I helped, take care

Honestly....if you respect yourself, you will wait. I know it may be hard at times to resist, but when you get married you'll be glad you waited for that special moment. Your virginity isn't something you lose, you give it up. You run the risk of getting pregnant or getting an infection. Just think- Is it worth it? And if you decide to have sex, and you get pregnant, don't EVER think about abortion. If you can't handle a child, you shouldn't open your legs! Hope this helps!

okay, I was reading the comment left by the kitty person above..why cant she consider abortion?! thats stupid. abortion is NOT cruel or inhumane. its a option if you accidentily become pregnant. I am 100% Pro-Choice, there is nothing wrong with abortion. NOTHING. so get over your lil 'oh no abortion is wrong' thing. its stupid.

are you a dumb ass do you know wut tha term abortion means!!!!! omg you need to check yo self before sayin abortion is not cruel ... kitty is right if you respect urself you should wait and also an abortion is only when necessary. but you know if you cant help it then just make sure your protected and yall should make sure wut your doin ok!!

You can have lots of things to contend with if you do have sex. If you do, make sure you use protection (at least condoms) against STDs and pregnancy. I'm sure most 14 year olds aren't ready to become parents. Also, if you do become pregnant, the idea of being a single parent, or adopting out your baby, or even terminating your pregnancy, all of these are pretty emotionally tough things to do, no matter what decision you make.

Good luck to you, whatever you decide.

Just give it up girl...You know you want to...So go ahead...Use a condom...Lol
Have fun...!!!

think of it this way... are you willing to put up with 17 hours of horridly painful, bloody murder, child labor? And if so would he be willing to raise a kid with u?hahah

ok
same prob here
only me and him have...sexed...haha
well
if he hsant told anyone bout everything else
than you should trust him
and if he d otell people
slap him
dump him
deny the whole thing