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It is beautiful if a young woman like you wants to have children. At your age I advice you to have a baby if you and your fiance want a beautiful BIG family, e.g. with 5 kids or similar. If not, then you may wait 4-8 years, when everything is stable around you. This is a big decision, so you have to disscuss your intention with your fiance and his father. Openly.
Try and hold off on starting a family until after you finish your college courses. Raising a baby is full time and you'll have many regrets about school although no regrets towards the baby of course. No matter what you decide, it is YOUR decision, and your parents will love your child no matter what. But coming from my own personal experience, PLEASE PLEASE finish your schooling and buy a house to bring your new bundle of joy home to. I bought my house after my little girl was born and it was hard and stressful, and I also quit college to work full time. STABILITY IS EVERYTHING! I wish you great luck. ^.^
You shouldn't try to get pregnant yet. You're ONLY 18.
You should wait until you're about 24+ before you start thinking of having a baby.
You still have you're entire life ahead of you. And if you are having doubt, which the fact that you had to ask shows it, then the answer is definitley NO.
If you have ANY doubt what-so-ever then you should NOT do it. I know I say this a lot, but you're WAY too young to have a baby just yet. At age 18, it's even a young age to be engaged, non-the-less have a baby. Just wait a couple years and think this out a little more, and then maybe you should have a baby.
You're too young to have kids, college should be your primary focus.
And don't your parents STILL have a problem with your fiance? Or is it boyfriend? Or back to fiance again?
actually they are coming around really well they have excepted that he is what I want and that it was my decision to make although they might not agree. they still don't know about the engagment but we are going to tell them at christmas.
Then in addition to my previous response, you need to hold off trying to have kids, AT LEAST until the engagement is announced, and you're ACTUALLY married...






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I am 18 in my first year of college I'm only going for two years. I am living with my fiance and I have a good job for now until I graduate and can get a really good job. my fiance also has a pretty good job it also helps that his father is living with us and pays his part of the bills, we both love children and really want one for the past couple months we have quit using condoms but I am still taking birth control I want a baby more than anything in the world but I'm afraid that my parents won't understand. what should I do? Please help!!!