Should I tell my boyfriend's wife about us?

me and my boyfriend just broke up because I found out he was married with 2 kids we were togther for 3 years and they have been together for 5 years they have 2 kids
what should I do

He is sleazy and she deserves to know it... afterward, it is her decision to stay with him or not and even though she has kids, she still needs to look out for herself with all of the stuff going around these days, who knows how many others he has been promiscuous with! You did the right thing by breaking up with him and I'm sorry that you were lied to, if you do decide to tell her, bring proof. Good luck!

I would tell her without the kids and her husband... I personallly would want to no if I was her... it is her choice to choose if she wants to stay with him or not... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

Dear andwhat,
Please do not tell her or have anymore contact with either of them. Domestic violence is a cause for several deaths each year and many are similar to your situation. This is not a game of tattling...you can be in real danger. Chalk this up to a leaned experience. I will suggest that you may have missed some red flags in this relationship. Perhaps you were never to his home, met his parents, sisters etc. Never saw photos, went on vacation together...these are all things couples who have been together this long would have done.
Sue...good luck

I would TELL YOU. not to have contact with him, because he is a liar, cheater, and a fraud, explain to him how you feel about the situation, being friends is too much contact, let him go, you'll find another.. good luck! :]

Personally,I would flip the situation...would you want toknow?? I sure as hell would.

I'm actually in the same situation and I'm seriously considering emailing his wife. I've decided to wait a few weeks until I've calmed down from the shock of it all and then see if I still think its a good idea. The problem is that I still love him and I'm mainly hurt from all the lies he told me..I don't want to end up doing something I regret for the rest of my life just because I want some twisted revenge. On the other hand I believe she deserves to know the truth...let us know what you decide.