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Should i take it or end it?

ME Asked by kayciemarie2010 about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

Okay me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot lately and today he said that he was thinking about breaking up with me and I said please don't and he said that he wouldn't if I did what he said pretty much... Well I dont like that idea but I hate the...

idea of us breaking up... I have spent a good portion of the last 3 or 4 days crying and I dont like that it makes me feel weak.. But I love him... I don't handle being controlled very well... And I'm scared that im going to step out of line and piss him off and then he's going to break up with me... Should I take this?? Or just end it?

He just told me that I can't tickle my friend anymore because its flirting.. Do y'all think that is flirting?? I mean he's my friend to me its just playing around??

I want to just shoot myself it sounds like an easy fix

Me (left) and Jenna Jameson (right) having a girls night out! Answered by lx4life19 on Apr 28, 2008, 06:02PM
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HE IS SOO NOT WORTH IT!
He's totally overprotective and jealous which is a big NO-NO!
I've been through it hun'.

Trust me.

And shooting yourself is not an easy fix.
It's a really selfish fix over a stupid guy.

Leave him.

cheese! Answered by nerd on Apr 28, 2008, 06:04PM
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Try reading what you wrote as if your best friend was talking to you. What advice would you give her? If he makes you cry more than he makes you laugh... something has to change.

kitty Answered by ty on Apr 28, 2008, 06:36PM
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He has the classic signs of an abusive boyfriend, overprotective, controlling, demanding...
You are worth more than this, you deserve better... you do not need to be with this person because you're afraid of being alone, you will find someone else...

Not nice to laugh at other's short comings Answered by ethmer on Apr 28, 2008, 06:37PM
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No one is worth it who gives you ultimatums. You would be doing yourself a world of good if you end the relationship and open yourself up to the possibility that Mr. Right may be out there looking for you.
 

ME Answered by kayciemarie2010 on Apr 28, 2008, 06:43PM
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I think/ thought he was/is 'Mr. Right' until now he has been so sweet... but he's changed now that he's started boxing and he's become a bit of a jerk... but I'm kinda trying to see if he'll go back to his old self

kitty Answered by ty on Apr 28, 2008, 07:28PM
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no one who makes you unhappy is worth it...

Cute, huh? Answered by lovestruck7233 on Apr 28, 2008, 08:04PM
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stepping out of line? dump that jerk. if he really cared about you like you care about him, he wouldn't be controlling you like this. he seems jelous or threatened that you are 2 good for him and that you will find something better. he is trying to keep you away from guys so that you will not dump him for a good guy like you deserve. look up the video No One Would Tell, they may have it on YouTube. my health teacher made us watch it. it's about a controlling boyfriend who abuses his girlfriend out of jelousy. it's kinda scary so beware. I hope that it hasn't gotten this far with u, it probably hasn't, but just try to talk to some friends about your problems so that they can maybe protect you .
think about this quote:
No man is worth your tears, and one that is would never make you cry.
tickling your friend sounds like you are playing around w. him, not flirting. shooting yourself over this bum is not an easy fix
*your boyfriend has started boxing/ well, in the movie I'm telling you about, the boyfriend wrestles. may be no connection and I'm not trying to scare u, but I think that you need to know this.

Answered by darthornx on Apr 28, 2008, 08:15PM
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ok I agree with what everyone is saying...anyways, yah its alright to have a boyfriend that can get jealous(not to the extreme) and be protective(also not to the extreme) but not one that makes you do w/e you say...that is just NOT right. you deserve freedom and make your own decisions, not let slim(no offense) like him control you and threaten you

I hope this has helped..

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