Should i take him back or not?

Few years a ago I was involved in a serious relationship. After few months, he was having a boys night as usual and slept with a gal. I broke up with him the next day. However, we accidently met on bebo. Once again the sparks are there and he want to...

date again. But im scared to get hurt and go through hell once more. It took me 8 months to get over him. So should I give him a second chance or not? A part of me still loves him, but the other part is having doubts..

I would suggest thgat you think hard about it. would you trust him? if not then that wont b a proper relationship. if yes then go ahead. but its entirely up to you.
hope this helps a little bit x

So... you had a serious relationship with some guy and you immediately broke up with him because he slept with another gal? Did he even get a chance to explain himself?

No offense, but it doesn't sound like you had a solid relationship with him to begin with. Let it go.

I think that if you even consider going out with him again, you need to learn how to be friends first! It's been a few years right? Some things can change in a few years and others will stay the same. Make sure you really get to know him again this time and what his relationships have been like since the two of you went out... has he cheated on any of the other girls he has dated since you? Chances are that his views and morals when with someone haven't changed, old habits die hard right! He made 8 months of your life terrible, remember that and be very cautious and think of all the other guys you could meet that would treat you better! You might miss out on them if you get stuck with this guy and he screws you over again! Good luck!

It would be very hard to make it work after a betrayal like that. Every time he went out with friends you would worry and be paranoid that he was hiding something. It would be tempting to snoop and check up on him and it would drive you crazy. I think if you really really want to - take it SLOW. Let the trust build before getting too serious. Make him prove to you that he can be trusted.

just because the sparks were there (at least for you) doesn't mean that this guy is going to commit to you or treat you right in the long term. He has already shown that he is willing to forsake you whenever it pleases him.