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Should i take him back?

Asked by 1234abcd over 2 years ago, 3 answers.

I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago. It was just one of those little break ups. we started hanging out again, getting back together and such about 1 month after the break up. until I heard he had gotten drunk at a party and that he did stuff...

with another girl (his sister's friend) I was devastated. I didn't hear this from him, but from his friend that was at the party. So, I asked him about it, pretending I didn't know to check his honesty. All he did was laugh at the question. This however made me feel worse about the situation. So i finally told him I knew, and I told him how it made me feel, he said that he was truly sorry and his last intention was hurting me. He did however pull the I was drunk card. I told him being drunk was no excuse. And he said the only thing that would make him happy is me. I don't know if this is just an act? And I'm not sure if I am over reacting because we were in fact broken up ? but it still hurts all the same. Should I take him back? I honestly can't move on. I'm stuck on him.

claire87 Answered by claire87 on Jun 19, 2007, 04:28AM
98 answers

i would give him one last chance and if he messes up this time then just move on girl.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 19, 2007, 08:07AM
7798 answers

He laughed at you when you first mentioned what he did, but then when you told him what you heard he, said he was sorry? Ya because he got caught! My ex gave me all those lines, but i didnt bite! Hunhes gonna continue to say anything you want to hear! My favorite line was i still love you.
I didnt think i could move on either, but your stronger than you think. You two broke up for whatever reason..if you had a strong and healthy relationship to begin with..it wouldnt have ended. Its YOUR choice if you want to get back with him. No one can tell you what to do!
If you dont think you deserve or can get anyone better..then by all means..take him back!

Sue90 Answered by sue90 on Jun 19, 2007, 10:53AM
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Dear 1234abcd,
You had broken up with him..meaning he had no obligation to you. If you break up with someone there was a reason a deal breaker that made you say I don't want to be with you. Try to remember that reason; the reason you broke up. You didn't settle your differences and continue dating..you broke up. So move on..He is considered an EX and you don't date the EX.
Sue..good luck

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