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Should i stop?

Shark Atack Asked by funadvice about 1 year ago, 7 answers.

Okay well I have this guy friend right?
we were bestfriend right?
Like the greatest of friends
We chated day night
We were always talkin 2 each other
Somewhere along the line he fell in love with me..
well then we got in a big fight
I found...

out he lied 2 me about somthings
well he called me a slu* wh0re
so many things
We stopped talkin 4 about a week
Then yesterday he messaged me sayin he missed me
well he asked me 2 be his friend again
I said yes but 4 the wrong reasons
I feel like a want revenge
Im doin a lot of stuff to make his life hell
But he thinks im still his bestfriend
Which im not!
I just want to get him back..
But now I feel bad because
He wrote me a song a poem
hes a dj so he put the song on his cd
But I've been lieing nonstop to him
I feel really bad!!! What should I do?
I mean im so confused all my lies are catching
Up with me I dont want to be his friend I just want revenge
Should I stop?or should I keep going until he finds out?
I mean what he did to me was really bad
I feel lost so can someone please guide me?
Negative feedback is accepted I know I did something
Really wrong =[

Please please help me!

Kurotsuchi taicho from Bleach Answered by sillist1s on Jul 25, 2008, 05:53PM
1463 answers

Do two wrongs make a right? No.
What you're doing is going to backfire majorly sooner or later. Then you might lose more than 1 friend and make some enemies. I understand how you feel about wanting revenge, I want to do that to one of my good friends too, but like I said, two wrongs don't make a right. If you're lies are catching up to you, stop. Lying to cover up more lies...never a good thing. Almost always backfires. So, I just think you should stop.hearts;

Meh.. Answered by katyaannelise on Jul 25, 2008, 06:01PM
90 answers

You should just stop. But I don't think you should stop being his friend completely. Just tell him the truth about how you feel and maybe he will understand.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jul 25, 2008, 06:02PM
53738 answers

^

The thing is I dont want to be his friend he hurt me sooo bad
I just want to get him back make him feel how I felt

Meh.. Answered by katyaannelise on Jul 25, 2008, 06:09PM
90 answers

Your probably doing more damage than you think you are doing. If you don't want to be his friend then tell him. Just think about how he might feel.

black and white Answered by kattie8451 on Jul 25, 2008, 06:30PM
612 answers

dont get revenge it only leads to further problems. you getting revenge isnt going to make anything right it is just prooving you are just a pythetic as he is (no offence) . what you should do is talk to him. tell him he really hurt you and you will need a little time to get over it... forgive but dont forget. that is the right thing to do. keep him under your watch so that he doesnt do that again but forgive him for what he has done. he seems like he knows he did something wrong but just tell him how you feel ... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answered by kaitbait914 on Jul 25, 2008, 09:26PM
25 answers

getting revenge is a bad thing
you don't want to follow his footsteps
you want to be the better person and
tell him all that you lied about
and make a vow to each other to never lie again
good luck happy

anime rocks your socks =P Answered by daydreamer161 on Jul 26, 2008, 01:16AM
66 answers

uuummm
I had the same prob =)
I said fck it im moving on he will feel horrible just by thinking hes not your frien =D
what I did was just messaged him saying what I felt about me not wanting to be his friend...
thats all

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