Should i stay with my boyfriend?

He lives in the next town from me and im the one who always has to pay train fare to go see him, the whole time weve been together he has come to my house twice because he spends all his money on fags. He doesnt make an effort with me and never calls me....

If I have an issue with something hes done and explain it he just immediately says sorry, he doesnt say why he did it. We had an argument once and I decided to see if he would make the effort to contact me first, as its always me ringing him and arranging things, and it took him a MONTH to contact me. I feel he just uses me for sex as thats usually the main focus of our conversations, its almost as if im someone he planned to use for sex once then decided he should stay with me so he could have it when he pleased. Theres so much more I could say, but I still love him help what can I do to change this or make things better? If possible. . thanks x

He is obviously taking you for granted if he doesn't make the effort to spend time with you or even just give you a sweet call. It is understandable that he won't always be able to pay for your ticket to see him but he should atleast try. Once sex is thrown into a relationship it complicates things greatly and can cause people to change. It does seem like he might only be attracted to you for the intimacy, but you need to talk to him. tell him you are thinking of leaving him, and that he needs to change. Ofcourse you love him, he has a part of you,but you need to be happy.