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I started to notice that my boyfriend doesn't care about me and I always send him a msg at morning or at night and I don't think he cares... So should I stay with him?? Or what?? But I'm just so in love with him and I know that he loves me but I donno why hes acting like this...
sweetie how can you b inlove with someone that dont even pay attention to you nemore hes the one thats suposed to holla at chu in the morning and at night and when you in the middle of taking a shower or when your fixing your hair or brushing your teeth you get what I mean...I srry but if I was you I would b wastime my time ovr this guy... a relationship is supposed to b 50:50 not 80:20 meaning your being mostly the guy and the girl...never let a guy tell you hes bussy...a good boyfriend always has time for their girl rather during football practice...or when they riding their bikes...or when they babysittin their lil sisters...they never busy for their girlfriend's and for him to tell you that is buss b/s..stop wasting your time and you diserve way better...break up wid him and juss move on..thats juss my opinion and what would...I've been in this same situation before and thats what I did good luck and hope erythin werks out with u
P.S. you might think your inlove with him but truely your juss inlove with reality
tell him you're there for him and assure him that he can talk to you and you'll be opened minded about whatever it may be. remind him that that is what a girlfriend is for and that you care. also, tell him that if he needs space, you understand but to just warn you first so you'll know and you wont annoy him. he could just be insecure about some things and going through a rough patch that he doesnt know how to deal with. assure him you're there for him.
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this fails and he's still a cow? leave him. you deserve better and he's a waste of your time. no matter how much you love him, put him on a little guilt trip by saying something along the lines of "I tried to be there for you, listen to you, but you just pushed me away and shut me out. there's nothing more that I can do and its hard to not think that you dont love/need me anymore."
hope this helps somehow. :)
once you talk to him & see that ya cant work things out right now, dats when you say ...listen I think we should just take a break, becoz I feel like your always busy for me and dont really seem to care about me...if he goes off on you for saying that then he is not worth your time at all den you simply move on and go from der...its up too you if you wanna be with him or not, listen to your heart & do what you think is the best for you!! your still young & there are plenty of other guys out der.
like busy with what, what is more important to him then you??? You need to put your foot down and let him know what it is..He cant be pushing you to the side when he becomes busy every now and then..because that can make you think and feel all different kind of ways...Seriously if you see that he is not showing you no love or type of care for you then take a break from him..maybe he would then probably realize what he had lost.
I know and I should take a break from him but I don't know how to tell him.. because he always gets upset and sometimes like when he is busy he gets angry so I just don't reply on his msgs when he text me, I miss the old him so what should I say to him??
I asked him why hes acting like this and being weird and if I'm the problem so he told me that these 2 days hes busy and it's not about me that hes acting like this..!!
you know he love you but dont know if he care?? okay... ya obviously need to talk about this..maybe he is going through something now...find out & talk.!
ask him anything could be up and after you guys talk if you still feel like this dump him
