Should i stay w/ my boyfriend? or just walk away?

Ok... Im 13 my boyfriend is 18 (my mom allows it) so my boyfriend left 4 the navy a year ago I cant see him for another 3 years he never has time 2 tlk 2 me or even write back... He only writes me about every 3 months... I dont know if I should...

stay w/ him or not... We love eachother w/ all our hearts... He told me that he would die for me I would die for him... But I kinda have a huge crush on a guy in town... I dont know if I should stay w/ josh (my boyfriend) or break up w/ him go w/ mike (the guy I like)... I dont know what to do!!! Please help?!?!?!?!?!?!

dont break his heart
tell him you want a break
and tell him that the space is really annoyin
dont date the other guy just hang out with him make sure hes good enough and then go for it

good luck
hope that helped
xx

I really dont think you should break up with him

just sneak around, the things he doesnt know isnt gonna hurt him. just dont fall for the other dude, thats what I would do if I were u. you peeps are still young geez lol

thats fucked up.
stay with your boyfriend
how would you like it if you were taken away from him and he has to come to the same decision?
really its your own choice.

but all in all
thats pretty fucked up
to have feelings for another guy, when you clearly love somebody else. and he loves you back.

Okay...well I have more to say...
so to me happened the same thing...
its weird because I was reading your story and I felt same way ..sorta lol
so I was 14 and my 18 boyfreind when and joined the nave...same thing I new we love eachother no questions asked...

but I think you must know that in the navy... majority of the guys there are party people and all they do is drink and hook up with girls...

so my boyfreind had that problem..since all his buddys drank so did he.. they would go to hotels and bring girls and drink and it made me so mad...but he would tell me these things..he never hid it from me..thats what I loved about him!

and wow ...and if he writes you every 3 months thats really bad...
my boyfreind would write me every week on sudays when they were allowed ..so I mean if a guy really misses his girl he will totally write to her..
if he does it every three months...that is a major problem... like a really big concern...iam sure he can get a payphine and but in a few quarters to say hello...

there came a point when my boyfriend would neglect to talk to me because he was always at bbq or stuff..
and I was sick of it so I left him a message on the cell since he never answered it and I would tell him ok if you dont want to talk to me and not date me anymore just tell me... if iam not what you want...and that
was a major eye opener for him ...
and he called me and wrote me and he wa like thanks for telling me iam sorry..
I mean somtimes
you just need to speak up and say how you feel...

my brothers in the army as well and he just broke up with his girl of 1 year because hes gonna be drinking and he doesnt trust himself..
bottom line majority of military people are party people there might be a chance he is cheating on you ..especially the fact that he writes you every 3 months..
so talk to him...and
I mean if this is how its going maby you should just continue it when he gets out or so...

your younge...GO HAVE FUN...
long distance takes so much effort especiallly from a guy that might be cheating...

thanks a lot joybear09!!! I really appreciate it!! but I did tlk 2 him he said we need a break... but thx 4 all the help!!