Should i stay?or should i go?with boyfriend with cancer

me and my boyfriend was having conflicts in our realationship lately,wich is normal for us,but he was diagnosed with brain cancer recently(sad)this has really got him down(understandable)I have been sending him nice greeting cards,love letters every...

week,I miss him so much,he called me to go out to eat lunch last week,it was so nice to see him,since he has been taking a lot of cancer medications which makes him look more healthier.well I asked him our we still boyfriend and girlfriend? he will not answer the ? he just says he need some time to think about everything thats facing him right know,I told him that I would be here for him,and that I want to be a part of his treatments and recovery.due to his family bieng dysfunctional I cant go over there to visit with him!I have let him know that he is welcomed to come to my place and I will come get him.he is very tired a lot due to the cancer ,im not going to pressure him for answerers,or to see him.im trying to be sensitive about everything but im starting to get lonely for his affection.im even considering dating again?but I feel like im giving up on him,if he would call me more and show more intrest I would be more comfortable with the whole situation,I love him so much and he tells me he loves me too,and I know its resl.what should I do?should I move on,but stay in touch?or should I just wait it out,and give him a little more time to sort things out?what would you do?

I think you are a very valuable person. Reading your letter I think and hope that you will (can) stay near him till it is poosible and he needs you. Of course you will also need some recraation. I think for him that is the best if you are even tempered.

stick with him and help him through it, think about it once its all over you can start out again and have an even better relationship if u still love him and he feels the same, it will take time depends how long ur willing to stay commited despite all the difficulties

aww babe!! how long ago did he get diagnosed?! that sounds soo sad! for the both of you. I think he doesn't want to answer you because just thinking about possibly not being with you might be really scary and to much for him. Keep talking to him and tell him you'll always be there for him no matter what! that will show him how much you care! and you being with him or even talking to him probably givez him more strength. Be strong babe!

I think you need to stay with him, he is going through a hard time and i think he realy needs to know you are there for him. he is probably scarred that you are going to leave him, or he is realy embarissed of his cancer.. so he is trying to keep some distance away from you so he doesnt get his heart broken.. why dont you call him and ask him to come over or meet somewhere so you two can have a talk and you need to tell him that you are behind him 100% and what ever he need you are there to help.And if he still seems distant from you, then comtinue to make him feel loved and supported.
i hope this helped!!
liz

Hey, tell him to take apricot seeds, not from the stores (b/c they have pesticides in them) but you can get them from Mexico. That's where my mom got her seeds when she had Lymphoma. This was back in 2004 when she got the seeds. She has been cancer free since. They help all types of cancer. He should really try it out, but a lot of people dont take the time too b/c they believe what they want. Anyways, I think you should stay w/ him. I would be crushed if my b/f left me b/c of something I couldn't help.