Should I stay or should I go ?

My situation is... I was with this guys in march of 2006, and we broke up in in nov of 06',n e ways it took him 2 months to get with someone, and that person happend to be his ex girl, so in my mind I was like he was thinking about his ex girl the whole time being with me, 'but he swaered to me he nevered played me' which I do belive b/c I was alwasy with him, im not in denial, but my problem is, that he's still with his girl and he still talking to me, I want to move on but I want his friend ship so that I can move on, he says no he can't so to me he want me to stay sexually with him or as enemies, when I hear that, I get freaked out b/c I can't imagine my life with him, so why does he still want me in his life, when hes still with his girl. I've been through so much, I wanted to have his baby , I got preg he told me to have an abortion, I have a 2 year --->not by him, he shows no love and affection, what should I do, I want him to love me and my son and be a family... Should his friendship matter to me as much as getting my feeling hurt?

Umm this guy is PLAYING you. He still wants sex with you but does not actually care about you. I don't know how you can not see this. Is your love that blind? Did you not read what you just now typed! I mean I'm not saying your stupid but com'on this guy is definitely not ready for any type of responsibility, ESPECIALLY that involves a 2-year old that is not even his.

GO GO GO HE is SERiOUSLY trying TO PLAii U
& iF HE is HURTiN you EMOTiONALY iTS ONLii MAKiiN THiNGS WORSE