Should i lose my virginity so early?

I have this problem. I#039;m in love and I think that he loves me too, but there are some minor complications (if you would call them minor). We#039;re not together anymore. Yes, it#039;s true. He broke my heart. But, he still says that he loves me...

and calls. That#039;s not the biggest of the problems. I#039;m sad to say that he#039;s currently in a relationship with someone else. My guess is he really likes her, but likes me too. I mean, sure he tells me that he loves me and I#039;m his everything, but why aren#039;t we together. I#039;ve been having these sexual thoughts lately about him. Even though I love him more than anything in this world, I don#039;t want to be the one to mess up anyone#039;s relationship. I do want him to be my first and he tells me that he wants to be with me sexually and as a couple. He even offered oral sex. I just wonder sometimes if that#039;s all he wants from me. I don#039;t want to go through with this and be ignored afterwards still waiting to be in a relationship with him again. I want this, but I want him to love me as a person. I want to lose my virginity to the one that I love and that#039;s him. Should I wait for him? Should I wait for someone else? Or should I just go ahead and do it? I do love him, but I have much more years ahead of me. What should I do?

you love him. i think you should be with him, sleep with him everything. sex is great. and if your having these feelings they need to be sorted. this girl he's with cant be overly exciting if he says hes still all into you. and oral, fully take him up on that babe. you dont know what your missing. go for gold, put yourself out there. dnt forget to wax!!

if he loved you then he would under stand that if you are going to lose your vaginaty that he needs to be with you and respect you. hes playin ya babe he just wants sex soz but itz da truth.

luv from thenaughtyone xx

READ THIS NOW NO IF HE'S WITH ANOTHER GIRL THEN HE'S ALL READY MADE HES PICK IF TWO PEOPLE ARE WITH ONEANTHER AND SOME ONE COME'S ALONG TO TAKE ONE AND HE GO'S HE VALUES HER MORE SORRY TO SAY IT I KNOW IT HURT'S BUT YOU ONLY WANT TO LOSE IT TO HIM BECAUSE you SEE THAT AS A WAY OF GETING HIM BACK (YOUR DOING IT WITHOUT KNOWING THAT YOU ARE) YOU HAVE TO ASK HIM WHO CAN HE LIVE WITHOUT YOU OR HER? HIS ANSWER WILL LET YOU KNOW.

im 16. i dated the man that i thought i was going to marry for about a year. 2 mnths into our relationship he told me i was the one for him and that he was starting to save money to buy me a ring. when i was getting my hair done for my sweet sixteen he came walking in got down on one knee in the middle of the hair salon and proposed of course being as happy as i was that day i said yes. we had sex when i was 15 he was 17 and i do not regret anything because he was the one that i loved whole heartedly ...we grew up together and so we were bestfriends first and it seems like thats where your relationship had started off from as well i say if you really love him and think he is the one for you...voice your opinion to him and let him know what you think ...whatever you do dont accuse him but just try questioning him in a concerned manner... see what he says and base your judement on that. i wish you the best. and if hes the one for you and you feel it in your heart go for it...and god forbid something is to happen and you end up not together just dont regret anything because at one point in time it was exactly what you wanted 3 casey

I think you would not ask if you should if you were ready wait until he is not with the other girl and see if he'll come back to you if he waits he is worth loosing your virginity to. I was 15 when I lost mine and I am not with him anymore but I am glad I did while I was with him. I am married now to a different guy and he know about my past and were ok so its up to you . If u are ready then go for it... Think about it though.... Make sure your ready and make sure he is the one you want to give yourself too!

sounds like he only tells you these things cuz he wants s*x. if he really loved you he would be by your side waiting until your ready instead with another girl and probably sleeping with her. i'm really really sorry for being so forward but i see this all the time. don't lose your virginity so early. save it for your wedding night. trust me i am

its obvious thats he's having his cake and eating it, is he really worth waiting for, ive seen this bebore, he is just using you, if his other girlfriend has her period, then he is going to turn to you for sex instead, don't be stupidin my opinon find some one who really cares about you, he say he cares but deep down he just wants to take your virginity thats all he's interested in im afraid. If you want to chat personally then here's my email address Fun mail me contact me at any time

dont do it hes jsut playing you

as a guy myself i say wait, if he says he loves yet he's out with someone else he's probly just trying to get lucky... some men are men like that

wait if he asks you out a again and you feel it's right then go ahead, but don't do anything jst to get him back he's not worth it. it sounds like he's playing you to me which is wrong.

I can say this because twice I was preassured to have sex - once by the guy , then by my freinds with a diffreent guy - both time si said no because I figured out it wasn't real, - I waited for the right guy. if this guys the right guy you'll be bale to wait and he'll come back to you wihtout the promise of sex.

my opinion - but whatever you do make sure your S.A.F.E.

no you shouldnt! he just wants 1 thing from you and think you know it! wait 4 some1 else! trust me he will com

no you shouldnt! he just wants 1 thing from you and think you know it! wait 4 some1 else! trust me he will com

Knowiing your age might have helped.All the same is obvious the guy wants your body.Sex is not the same thing as love.You might be sexually attracted to someone and yet not luv him.My opinion is dont do it until you have settle it within you because it is your body and you will carry the scare.You can however talk to him and if he truly loves you he will come back but be prepared to forget about him and move on with yoiur life.You will definately find someone who can take you for what you are. I

hun, if he broke your heart, do NOT have sex with him. he is probably just using you. whenever he doesnt have his other girlfriend he has u. believe me, if you have sex early, you WILL regret it. you might even get pregnant and that would ruin your life. if he really loves you, he would not have hurt you. my opnion cuss him off and say no.

hey girl?I am happy to meet some one like me.however I will advice you not to give up your virginity for him this is because he is more interested in sex than in the love you guys share never,I repeat,never think you can love once I believe you are justing getting into the dating thing and I bet you,someone is there some where who is worth your body and soul.bet me.I promise you.there is this American hip hop tittle S.E.Xi have 4gotten the artist that will tell you exactly what I mean .I am one too and I have not dated since I was a kid because I am scared thay will come to me for sex and guess what I am 19 and many promise love,ibut all I see in their eyes is lust . think hard because viginity comes one in your like and a husband who takes you as pure as you are will cherish you for life because he knows who you are but imagine if the one you love gets what he wants and runs off?it would be double the natural taumer.well I guess and hope you will visit and answer my own question in my profile.

babe listen guys will SAY and DO anything to get into your pants. save yourself for that speciall guy and dont rush it being a virgin is not a desease. please listen to me and all the other people on this do not give him your virginity you are worth more than that. he jst wants you because mabey he is gettin bored with that other lassie. I can understand how much you want to you dont want the sex you want it is to remember how it feels to have him in your arms agen and to kiss him agen and b with him agen ino how tempting it is but dont do it because if you do you will regret it and your virginity is sonthing you CANT tke back. hope I helped good luck and get back to me on this k xxx

save it for the one you love

love rere666

Did you do it??? 5 years ago, I'm sure you did it.

I think you should keep your verginity cz its the most precious thing that womens have until you get married you husband will repect you more and love you more..

hun... don't do that..
if he really loves you, he would be with you!
maybe what your looking for is love and what he's looking for is a friend with benefits...