Should i lose my virginity so early?

I have this problem. I#039;m in love and I think that he loves me too, but there are some minor complications (if you would call them minor). We#039;re not together anymore. Yes, it#039;s true. He broke my heart. But, he still says that he loves me...

and calls. That#039;s not the biggest of the problems. I#039;m sad to say that he#039;s currently in a relationship with someone else. My guess is he really likes her, but likes me too. I mean, sure he tells me that he loves me and I#039;m his everything, but why aren#039;t we together. I#039;ve been having these sexual thoughts lately about him. Even though I love him more than anything in this world, I don#039;t want to be the one to mess up anyone#039;s relationship. I do want him to be my first and he tells me that he wants to be with me sexually and as a couple. He even offered oral sex. I just wonder sometimes if that#039;s all he wants from me. I don#039;t want to go through with this and be ignored afterwards still waiting to be in a relationship with him again. I want this, but I want him to love me as a person. I want to lose my virginity to the one that I love and that#039;s him. Should I wait for him? Should I wait for someone else? Or should I just go ahead and do it? I do love him, but I have much more years ahead of me. What should I do?

READ THIS NOW NO IF HE'S WITH ANOTHER GIRL THEN HE'S ALL READY MADE HES PICK IF TWO PEOPLE ARE WITH ONEANTHER AND SOME ONE COME'S ALONG TO TAKE ONE AND HE GO'S HE VALUES HER MORE SORRY TO SAY IT I KNOW IT HURT'S BUT YOU ONLY WANT TO LOSE IT TO HIM BECAUSE you SEE THAT AS A WAY OF GETING HIM BACK (YOUR DOING IT WITHOUT KNOWING THAT YOU ARE) YOU HAVE TO ASK HIM WHO CAN HE LIVE WITHOUT YOU OR HER? HIS ANSWER WILL LET YOU KNOW.

If he really love you he would wait for you until you are truely ready to lose your virginty. Cause im in that same ordeal. I have been with this guy for a couple months now and he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever. He does talk about having sex like that. But the way he act make me feel that he wants to have sex with me. And I told him if I he loved me like he said he does he would wait until im ready and he left me because he didn#039;t didn#039;t love me or he didn#039;t want to wait. Just because a guy tells you he loves you it doesn#039;t really mean he loves you

If he really love you he would wait for you until you are truely ready to lose your virginty. Cause im in that same ordeal. I have been with this guy for a couple months now and he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever. He does talk about having sex like that. But the way he act make me feel that he wants to have sex with me. And i told him if i he loved me like he said he does he would wait until im ready and he left me because he didn#039;t didn#039;t love me or he didn#039;t want to wait. Just because a guy tells you he loves you it doesn#039;t really mean he loves you

Whoaaaaa...you have way too many doubts to give the present of your virginity to him.

When in doubt--DON#039;T.

If you do this and he breaks up with you==you#039;ll be thinking he used you. And he#039;ll be thinking it was okay because you said it was okay.

Time is always your friend--give this to yourself and him.

Good luck and God Bless

I strongly believe that you shouldn#039;t lose your virginity over this guy.The way you describe his words aren#039;t easily bought maybe for you but i think he just want to have a sex with you. I think what you are feeling is just a little puppy love, i think you should wait to find someone who you feel more comfortable with. If he really wants to be with you his first step should be leaving the other girl. So don#039;t lose something so valuable for someone who might only want you for fun.

Girl...I think you definitly need to wait amp; forget this guy. When you are in love with someone, you don#039;t plan sex, sex isn#039;t something you plan, it#039;s something that automatically happens on its own! Him saying he want#039;s to get sexual with you, sounds like he#039;s just after the sex and not after your real heart.

I think you need to wait! And don#039;t rush things...sex is a thing that is not to be played with!!

Love Always,
Heather

Be sure to plan the parenthood part or the little girls goal to loose her virginity will be the biggest plan she ever made. Not sure she is ready to raise a child when she is learning to deal with young love.

my advice is to forget about him there are much better guys out there...if he broke ur heart...don#039;t wait around for him...get over him and move on...trust me u will find a great guy in no time...

my advice is to forget about him there are much better guys out there...if he broke ur heart...don#039;t wait around for him...get over him and move on...trust me u will find a great guy in no time...

Hey!
I was in the exact position you were in but mine was long-distance. I loved him very much, we were great together, and he of course broke my heart. I was devistaded, I hade no clue what to do. I found out that he was going out with another girl. Then set me off rigth away, anyway back to my point. Most guys think they can do what ever they want to girls, I think that you should forget about him, he says he loves you, then why is he in another relationship, and if he does really love you than he would be trying to make it work out between you guys. He is no good for you or desrves you. If a guy does that to you leave him, even though you love him very much, you have to let go. I did what i just told you, and it turned our great after all. I left him and it took me a while to get over it but, then i found this other great guy, and he thinks about girls feeling, unlike the other guy that i went out with. You will find another guy even better that will not brake your heart, and when he says he loves you, he will actually mean it, and he will try to make things work between you guys, if something goes wrong (GOD FORBID), It will take you a long time to get over him, but you will.
GOOD LUCK!!! I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT

Hey,first i must ask how old you are. If you love him and you know he loves you ,you shouldn#039;t wait. I know parents and friends tell everyone that you should wait until you are married,but what if some bad happens.God forbid it but you can#039;t live forever. You should seize the moment and be happy while you sill have the chance.My ex-boyfriend and I,Rayshard were going steady until he fingered me in the class room and everybody saw. Before that we were unsepratable. Whereever you saw him you saw me and dido. We were and still are in love. He broke up with me on Janruary 30,2004. He fingered me on December 19,2003. That time in my life was very depressing and I have NEVER gotten over that day and moment.When he broke up with me he didn#039;t tell me the reason why even though I kinda knew. That kinda made me mad. If you are going to break someone#039;s heart you should give them a logical explanation for it.and He Didn#039;t!
I love him more than I did now after we are broken up,more than I did when we were together and everyday I regret not making long sweet love to him and I think if you really love him as much as you say you do,you will take my advice and be with the one person you love the most. Don#039;t make the same mistake I did and let your lover get away.Fight for him and justify your love in a spectula way. Be with him in body mind and spirit. Love until you can loe no more. Don#039;t take true love for granted because if you do it won#039;t come again. Natalie Fun mail me

quot;That kinda made me mad. If you are going to break someone#039;s heart you should give them a logical explanation for it.and He Didn#039;t!
I love him more than I did now after we are broken up,more than I did when we were together and everyday I regret not making long sweet love to him and I think if you really love him as much as you say you do,you will take my advice and be with the one person you love the most.quot;

That#039;s right. He broke up with you without giving a reason. And you know what his shallow reason is. So why do you regret not giving yourself to him? You can only do that once, and how happy would you be if you gave it to someone so shallow? If he was worth keeping and if he really loved you, he would have stayed with you even without sex. Breaking a girl#039;s heart just because she refused to give herself just proves that the guy loves only the body of the girl and not the girl herself.

I really dont think u shuld.First off u wouldnt like that if u were in his gilfriends shoes.And sorry to say but he might dump u after he sleeps wiv u.The whole point is i really dont think its worth sleeping wiv him.And if u think ur ready,let it a perfect time not a sneaky time wiv someone whose got a girl.U sound nice and genuingly in love with him but he will hurt u.Take my word tho i know i sound cheeky!!

i do not think you should have sex with him you clearly are not ready as you say you think your ready when your ready you no your ready. do you get embarrased taklkin abt sex to him? or does he 2 u? if so then this is a sign that ur not ready. move on and find sum 1 who isn't in a relationship and loves you 4 you please. the boy who loves you will wait til your ready and will not ask you all the time trust me you will regret it l8r on in life. he doesn't like you as much ashe makes out as his with the other girl not u. i no its hard 4 u 2 understand but trust me keep your virginity 4 sum 1 to take who is trustworthy nd you feel 100% comftable with.i had sex with my ex who dumped me abt 2 weeks ago we were 2geva for 5 months nd he tld me he loved me wanted hos kids with me nd so on he may of meant sum of it but i lost it to him nd he was quick enough 2 leave me 4 sum 1 else nd i think that's wat this boy is going to do 2 u nd i dnt wnt that to happen so find sum 1 else nd don't go lukin 4 love let it cum 2 u. PLEASE!!!!

first off, how old r u?
second,if he loves u so much y is he w/ some-one else....u need to ask him that.
third,do u love him enough to give him all that u got? i mean once u loose it...it anit never coming back....sry thats just the way it is.
fourth,do u belive in safe sex...some ppl dont...the religous ppls dont and if u do belive in it i would say if u end up doing anything....take some pills or wear a condom PLZ!i dont wanna c a fellow chick go down!
fith, why do u love him? wat do u love about him? somethings all guys have u just dont know and if he is willing to b w/ someone else and still tell u he loves u and want to have sex w u then think of how he'll b in your relationship if u get back together. he will probably cheat on u....my guess is if he is acting like this u dont want him hes a jerk....i know u'll hurt and everything but u should expect better than that...u r more than that. u could get any man in the world if u really try and act like a lady. make all the boys want u. make it so they cant have u. its a game and a chalange ....men love a chalange. if u can learn to play u can have any one!
thats wat i got to say about it all.
hope it helps....
later!
blondie

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I think This is bad. boys and girls lose their virginity very early.
I think girls can stopped this 99%
Because
Virginity is a girls treasure
She should keep it for her wedding night

Boys have to think
They ar intercourse with this girl one day she will be wife of anyone
If every boy think it then they can get pure and virgin wife

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yo wats goodS? im 15 years old and i want to help you cause i had been goin trew the same thing as you been to.I broked up with my man because he played me with this gurl and he lost his virginity with her so we had a really close relationship we loved each other alot and we showed it 2.I dont know what happend to his mind that day because he really loved me alot and he still do and oneday i we were going to loose our virginty but it didint happend cause i had my period so that was nasty loosing your virginity when u have your period.i still love him alot and i wanna come back with him but i cant cause for what he did to me it really herted me alot.My advise for you is to loose your virginty to a special guy u know u could wait for the next love .Cause what you are saying is that yall broked up and i wonder why he went with another gurl if he loved you alot he could of try his best to win you back.so good luck i hope you follow my advise are a better advise.

hmm SOUNDS LIKE he is just in it for the sexual side of it all.
i mean face it!!! if he really truly loved you he wouldnt be in a relationship with another girl. bin there done that, STUPID idea. he is still with her, and you are just a back up in case something goes wrong.
GET OVER HIM!!
HE AINT WORTH YOUR TIME!
go out, have fun with your friends, meet some super cute boys, you are single remember!
HE WANTS you to not see anybody, thats why he is saying all this bull.
so go out girl! have fun! trust me, there are guys better than this
DICK!!!!

YOU DONT HAVE TO BE IN LOVE TO HAVE SEX SO LOVE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT IF YOU WANT TO GO FOR IT BUT THINK ABOUT FUTURE CONSEQUENCES BEFORE YOU GO HAVING SEX WITH WHO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH!!

Hey i know jow it feels.So let me give u some advice if u truely love him and ur heart is telling u to go for it go for it but dont listen to what ur head is thinking listen to what ur heart is saying.Ok well i hope this helps ok well g2g bye!
FOLLOW UR HEART!!!!!

if he really loved you he won't have broken your heart.I think that his looking for a easy rideto tell his friends about.