Should i let my boyfriend finger me?

We have talked about it several times but there are a few things im worried about. I have never had sex and only used a tampon once and that was unpleasent so I'm worried its going to hurt. Also are there any after effects? Is it worth it?

firsty, how old are you?
secondly, how long have you been with your boyfrined?
do you feel ready?
if you dont feel ready dont let him no where near you.
if you havent been with him long then dont ecuz you will get a bad reputation around school/college ect.
if your under the age of 16 then I would take it slow and make sure your ready.
there are no side affects. if youre ready just tell him too be gentle the first time x
wish you the best of luck 3

Well if you think that you're ready then go for it. There aren't side effects to getting fingered and it feels nothing like putting in a tampon. Also, if putting in the tampon was that unomfortablethen you probably did it wrong. Fingering shouldn't hurt at all as long as you take it easy

Don't Try and convince your self that your ready. If you are unsure just wait until you feel more comfortable with your own body. Some girls find it kinda painful their first few times but its all good after that.. Just rethink your choices because once it happens you can't change it. Be safe.

the thing I can tell you is to not do it right now I am 14 and my bestfriend had the same problem as you you have to do it when you know you love them even if you love them it has to take time my friend I told her the same thing and she still done it and she got pregnent at age 14 and when her boyfriend found out he told her to get kill the baby but she did not whant to every girl do not whant to kill there child but some guys just don't get it just tell him how you feel if you don't whant to do it don't and tell him why if he likes you or love you he would undestand and wait if other people laugh about it he should not care if he loves u I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year an 6 months many people ask me if I done it with him and he asked me on my 14 birthday to do it but I told him I can't am still a teen I don't whant to loose out my life time taking care of a baby beauz if I go pregnent am not going to kill the baby you will miss out your life and I was 2 young to ruin my child life when he grows up thinking am a bad mum am not going to take that chance so I told him am going to wait and he was k about that becauz he feel the same way his child having a best life ever so we are taking it easy so just think about what can happen cost of things when you do do it before you do