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Should i just let go of him...?

Asked by kiely20 over 6 years ago, 3 answers.

Im in 2 1/2 years relationship with this guy. Things was going great at first. He lately got his own place and I moved in lived with him. I#039;d dreamed of a perfect family toghether but he had CHANGED. We#039;ve got into stupid fights every single...

day. I#039;ve tried so hard not to make it worse but he had a problem with his temper. He told me to get out of his house and threw all my stuffs outside the door. I couldn#039;t control mine at that time I knocked off his entertainment set. He wouldn#039;t let me take the stuffs that he BOUGHT for me, because he said: quot;this sh** aint yours, I bought it with my own moneyquot; Later he appologized and we were happy again and we fight again. This is the 3rd times I left his house. I don#039;t know what is wrong with me. I don#039;t know why I#039;d put myself in this situation. We#039;re even plans to have a baby, but I told him that I don#039;t see a future with him. I#039;d really wants to be with him but I can#039;t keep go on like this. One thing I can say about him right now is that $$$ are important to him. $$$ always come first then me, if I#039;m that lucky. Well I#039;m very depress right now, I#039;d really hope that you would give me some advice. Help me!!!

Answered by dollbaby on Jun 07, 2003, 07:05PM
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MOVE ON ! It can only get worst...He cares about money more than you then he is obviously not someone to be spending the rest of your life with, Kicks you out of you guys home and throws your things outside!! Your to young for the drama
girl please. He is no good for you !! Find someone else that will treat you better and put you first!!

Answered by apoc on Jun 07, 2003, 07:44PM
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I#039;d have to say the first two pieces of advice were dead-on. While it will be very difficult, you need to accept that this guy is not good for you and move on with your life. If you don#039;t see a future with him, then all you#039;re doing is biding your time until something *really* bad happens. While he might have been good for you in the beginning, you need to realize that people do change, and that he is probably a different person from who he used to be. Good luck, hope everything works out for you happy

Answered by shsrams85 on Jun 09, 2003, 01:29PM

I would have to say that you need to move out. This obviously isn#039;t working, but I wouldn#039;t say for you to kick him to the curb just yet. I say that time away from each other is what yall need, the way yall make up after a fight makes me think that yall are in love with each other, you just need to explain to him that you are going to move out temporarily and yall can still see each other but not quot;datequot; on a regular basis. See how that works out and if you figure that you don#039;t need him then break it off but I believe after a little time off, yall will both be miserable without each other and i think yall will both change.

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