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Should i have sex or should i wait longer

Asked by smile over 5 years ago, 3 answers.

I#039;m 18 years old and my b/f is 20 we have been 2gether for 1 year an 5 months and we have not done anything beyond kissing. well just touching each other but nothing beyond that. I#039;m still a virgin and I want to kinda go a lil bit further but I...

don#039;t know if I should. I respect my parents and I would feel kind of weird coming back home with a guilty consiense. I want to have sex with my guy but in a way I don#039;t please help.

Answered by dallasmn on Jul 27, 2004, 03:11PM
3 answers

Hey honey,

The way I see it is, if you#039;re not hurting anyone else in the process (physically or emotionally), then whatever makes you happy do it. If the problem is that you don#039;t want to disrespect your parents wishes but you still feel strongly about having sex, then the best advice I can give you is maybe wait until you dont live with them anymomre (assuming you still do) and be responsible; go the the gynocologist and make sure you#039;re on good birth control (not just condoms) and be extremely grown up about your grown up decision. For the most part, unless your parents are extremely religous, I think they have an idea that ya#039;ll are thinking about sex; I just think that it#039;s something they don#039;t want to think about (you know their little girl having sex). Also, I#039;m sure every parent is a little concerned about their child having a child, so as long as your extremely cautious with your birth control methods, I think everything should work out for you.

Love Always,
dallasmn

Answered by countryatheart on Sep 04, 2004, 04:52PM
4 answers

does quot;touching eachotherquot; include oral sex? if yall havnt done that you always can do that before you jump into the whole sex thing...but yeah i say whatever makes you happy then do it. go with what you feel... take care! happy

Answered by funadvice on Jun 15, 2005, 09:54PM
53985 answers

well congradulations for being in a relationship without sex, and in love thats really nice to here. he must really respect you. your parents are going to have to realise it one day, and if you feel right them do it. if you want talk to your mother and just say to her how you feel. but i didnt, i just kept it from her, its ok. its your life not theirs.