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Should i have sex if i want to?

Asked by sarahlou over 2 years ago, 10 answers.

I am 16 years old even though my profile says I am 13. I swear! Should I have sex with this guy? Im not a virgin. Well I am really. I was raped when I was 9 but I want to have sex now. My boyfriend has a condom and everything and im ready but I dont know...

how to ... you know!!! Tell me what to do!!!

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Answered by giblet628 on Nov 03, 2007, 03:00PM
15 answers

First off...I wouldnt have sex with this boy unless you really care about him for it to really mean something and be something special. Wait until the moment is right...dont plan it! that can be kinda awkward. I think that if you are truely ready and you care about this boy then go for it! just be sure to use protection cause it will be scary. even tho you have kinda had sex before...you havent got used to it, so it will hurt. Be sure to have plenty of time and privacy and just have fun with it. Oh! and make sure that you are very clear with him about how you feel..if it hurts then tell him to go slower or to stop for a few seconds to take a breather...by the way, I highly reccomend lubrication, it really helps!!!

Answered by funadvice on Nov 03, 2007, 03:32PM
53906 answers

At sixteen, you're still too young to be having sex. And since you dont know how to, you're probably not as ready as you think. Not sure what to make of the rape comment, but you shouldn't think you're allowed to have sex because you're not a virgin anymore.

Answered by randyo on Nov 03, 2007, 04:32PM
578 answers

You're 16.
If you really love the guy you want to have sex with, and if he really loves you, you BOTH will wait a couple more years. Wait until you're at LEAST 17 or 18.
And if you're not wanting to have sex with someone you love, then DON;'T have sex.
Sex is a VERY special thing between two people and should be treated as a special thing between two people. Not just as a physical pleasure. Because that's not ALL that it is.
You can get pregnant. You can get STD's if the person you're with or if you've been with a lot of people.
And if you don't love the person, then you'll REALLY regret later on in your life.
You'll wish you had waited.
So find someone you love, wait a while, and THEN maybe, if you're really ready to, have sex.

Answered by i_love_turtles on Nov 03, 2007, 05:52PM
6 answers

NOOO!!! WAIT UNTIL YOURE MARRIED!!!

Answered by punkr0ckbeezy on Nov 03, 2007, 10:07PM

0MG GiRL JUST D0 iT I W0ULD...

Answered by girlygirl_101 on Nov 04, 2007, 05:07PM
40 answers

If your ready go for it. use a condom.Dont listen to randyo.go for it.If you dont know what to do. Just do what feels right. when your makin out just keep goin from there.

Answered by guest5231 on Nov 08, 2007, 09:22AM

it is not up to any one but do what you think I am 14yrs and I can not wait so it is up to you

Answered by guest5231 on Nov 08, 2007, 09:40AM

it is not up to any one but do what you think I am 14yrs and I can not wait so it is up to you

Answered by tabithablue on Nov 09, 2007, 01:23AM
3 answers

Christ Almighty - NO!!!
You don't even know HOW to! You are NOT ready to have sex. You may be 16, but you are 13 sexually. You don't have a clue what you are doing and it will end in a disaster! You don't even know what sex, fingering or masturbating is.
WAIT, WAIT,WAIT!!!