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Should i have an abortion??

My cat, Dopey Asked by kittyluck 12 months ago, 10 answers.

I am a 24 year mother of 3 beautiful children and I am pregnant again. Unfortunately the birth control that I was using failed. My husband and I are not happy with my pregnancy so I am considering having an abortion. I know that it is a terrible thing...

to do, but I feel like there is no way out. 3 kids is more than enough, We bearly have enough money to support the ones that we already have. My husband and I have always been againts abortion, and I don't understand why we want to do this. When we had our 1st kid we were a kids ourselves and we had the courage to have our baby. Plus I am on methedone (a medication extremely addictive) and my youngest child had the horrible experince of going through withdrawls at birth. What can we do. Please HeLP!!!

i like fountains. Answered by melovesyouu on Nov 30, 2008, 09:21AM
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I suggest giving the child up for adoption.
I was adopted at birth, because my biological mother couldn't afford to take care of me at the time.

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Answered by amblessed on Nov 30, 2008, 09:15AM
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Abortion takes a Life.

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Answered by kaylin66 on Nov 30, 2008, 08:36AM
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Abortion is murder dont do it . stay thro the pregnacy and give it up for adoption if you dont want to keep it ,.

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Marilyn smiles! Answered by ally_xo on Nov 30, 2008, 09:00AM
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abortion isnt killing someone
birth DOES NOT begin at conception
end of
when it can fend for itself out of the womb
that is when it is considered a living thing
a baby
foetus's cant even breathe for themselves
thats not a human just yet
anyway besides the point
its your body
your future child
your choice
if you arent happy you could consider put it up for adoption if you can take that
or abort it
at the end of the day its your choice
have a nice long talk about it with your husband

yum! Answered by lalala123 on Nov 30, 2008, 08:47AM
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I think that if you want a abortion you are entitled to it. But I agree. Abortion is killing someones life. If you want to live through the rest of YOUR life knowing that you killed someone..then you have at it. But in my heart I know that if that situation came down to me dieing I would still not have a abortion. And with the whole baby withdrawls..I understand how you would feel. And that could possibly kill the baby anyways..it is up to you..but if it were me I would just go through with the pregnancy.

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this is me and my dog Answered by blerggher on Nov 30, 2008, 09:25AM
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Yeah girl get that abortion

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southern girl Answered by dawn1 on Nov 30, 2008, 11:10AM
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Don't listen to blerggher, have tha baby and if you don't want it give it up for adoption,because abortion is WRONG all tha way around. Would you have like it if you was killed with out having a life then you wouldn't be married and have 3 kids and if that was me I would have it. I hope you make tha best choice.

kat von d Answered by blindedwithin on Nov 30, 2008, 11:39AM
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I think giving you child up for adoption is better...abortion is not really killing but it deprives a person of being somebody...my parents almost aborted me,my granny said dont,and if they did,I wont be here giving people you advice...so give it up for adoptionhappy

Milan Answered by ifeelcrazy123 on Nov 30, 2008, 02:25PM
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I am not against abortion in certain circumstances, but I do think that you should consider it carefully. maybe you have other options like adoption. the thing is abortion can have some really bad emotional consequences which I wouldn't wish on anyone.

me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate on Nov 30, 2008, 06:13PM
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sometimes, abortion is the only option
and women need that option
abortion is not killing a life, its killing a bunch of cells
becxause a real abortion can only happen when the baby is a bunch of cells, and is not aware of itself
its just like eating a chicken egg before it turns into a baby chicken...
because that chicken isnt aware of itself either...its just a bunch of cells
its the exact same thing
abortion sounds like your best option...theres no point bringing another child into this world if you cant take care of it
because theres already enough children with that problem
so it sounds likeyour best option
other options would be adoption, keep it, give it to a relative, or a friend, ect
but abortion sounds like your best option

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