Should i have a baby at 21

should I have my baby at 21?..im 20 I will be 21 before the baby is due. I have been with my boyfriend for a year still going strong I love him so much! I am in college and he is CONSIDERING joining the military. Should I have my baby?

I don't think so -
A year isn't long at all, you should wait till you are both done your education and are financially stable, babies are SO expensive.

thank you I really do want to continue my education and wonder if I would have the motivation to be in school and raise a baby however I know if my boyfriend does join the military it would offer great health benefits for my child...I also had an a miscarriage and an abortion previously and don't know if I can handle another one. on the same note my family would be tremendously disappointed yet supportive...what should I do??

No, you're only 20. Once you have a kid, you have a kid for the rest of your life. Having children young prevents people from doing all the normal young people stuff. Just wait.

I agree. Wait a little bit, see how things turn out.
Then, If things remain stable, go for it!