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Should i have a baby?

best friends Asked by voice5w33t about 1 year ago, 12 answers.

My boyfriend in and college[[19]] and im and high school[[15]] we are very much and love and my whole family loves him and his seem like they like me but lately I've been really wanting to have a baby and dont know what to do I know its a big...

responsibility and all that crap thats not what I want to hear I need actual help...

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Nicole Answered by nicolefmurphy on Jun 11, 2008, 01:50PM
12 answers

OK HUNNY, WHEN I WAS 15 MY boyfriend WANTED ME TO HAVE A BABY FOR HIM, I NEVER BECAUSE I HAD A GOOD HEAD, BUT WHEN I WAS 18 I DECIDED I WOULD HAVE HIM A BABY...MY LIFE IS FOREVER CHANGED, FROM THAT MOMENT ON,
I LOVE MY KIDS, I WOULD NEVER GIVE THEM BACK, THAT'S FOR SURE, BUT IT IS HARD, WE OWE SO MUCH MONEY...WE ENDED UP GETTING MARRIED AND NOW HAVE 3 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN TOGEATHER, BUT LIFE IS HARD, MY ADVICE, YOU DON'T NEED TO HAVE A BABY RIGHT NOW, YOU ARE YOUNG LIVE YOUR LIFE, AND FOR GOD SAKES, DON;T GO HAVE A BABY, YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE, MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICES...OK...YOU BOATH ARE YOUNG, AND NEED TO HAVE FUN TOGEATHER, WITH OUT THE BIG ISSUE OF A BABY, ENJOY YOUR TIME TIME TOGEATHER , DO THINGS THAT MAKE YOU BOATH HAPPY, TAKE TRIPS, GO SKINNY DIPPING, HAVE SOME PARTIES, DO WHAT KIDS DO, AND HAVE FUN BEFOR YOU SEDDLE DOWN, YOU HAVE LOTS OF TIME TO HAVE BABBIES, IF YOU WANT MY FULL ADVICE,
HAVE FUN AS A KID, DON'T GROW UP SO FAST
FINISH SCHOOL
GO TO COLLEGE
GET A GOOD JOB
BYE A HOME-- MAKE SURE YOU 2 CAN LIVE WITH EACH OTHER..LOL
GET MARRIED
HAVE A BABY

OK HOPE I HELPED A LITTLE.

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Answered by newmama on Jun 11, 2008, 07:53PM
4 answers

I totally agree with NicoleFMurphy...please wait!!!

Answered by silvereyedwolf on Jun 13, 2008, 05:42PM
16 answers

Wait untill your 18 have a reliable income a nice place to live and a least $1000 to start to pay for all the bills and baby things. Once you have all that have fun with out condums.

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35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Jun 10, 2008, 03:01PM
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Definitly not!
Almost every teenage girl goes through a 'wanting to have a baby' phase, but actually trying/having one is a totally different story. Think about your future and your life, let alone the fact that its illegal for you two to even have sex...

kitty Answered by ty (Online now) on Jun 10, 2008, 03:12PM
10116 answers
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Sure, then he can sit in jail for a couple of years for stat rape...

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Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 10, 2008, 03:16PM
7802 answers

Having a baby will only make things harder with your boyfriend, the chances of staying with him after the baby fall to about 5%! Being a parent is a life long commitment. Be prepared to end your teen life. You can not be a carefree teen that comes and goes whenever. You will forever be a mom. A parent, an adult. Just enjoy your teen life now and wait until you can get a great job so you can provide a good life for your child. Having a baby as a teen is never the right time! Go to college, make something of your life, before you bring a child into this world. Wanting a baby at such a young age, without any means of support, is both selfish, and immatue!

Summer<33. Answered by christiexdisturbed on Jun 11, 2008, 10:59AM
99 answers

Think about the baby.
It won't be raised in the best environment.
Not beacuse of you and your boyfriend or anything.
Just because you won't be able to fully afford it or give it everything it needs because you are in school and you don't have a real job yet.
I would wait.

Answered by sugarmouse24 on Jun 13, 2008, 01:12AM
103 answers

If you 2 can stay together til your 21...then maybe. your too young and you know it. All girls go through that whole baby thing at the teenage age. It will dramatically change your life and you can forget about shopping w/the girls and going to the clubs and hanging at the movies/malls etc...while your at home pregnant, he'll be out w/his friends and just being a guy. Sure he mite stay w/u at times, but most of the time, you will b alone. Live out your teenage years and see if you guys are still together. After age of 21, you will have matured and your choices and decisions in life will change. Graduate and btw..always practice safe sex. Do you really want to be a 15 yr old mom?? I mean seriously...Look around u..u see all the young couples w/babies who are separated or divorced already by 25?? well that should tell you something. Finish school and get urself an education and think about what you want to do. Whos going to pay those bills? whos going to pay for living expenses? babies expenses? medical attention? what if you have complications etc...think...dont b naive. Finish being a kid before having a kid.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jun 13, 2008, 10:51AM
53985 answers

I'm not trying to be rude but I think this pix would take place of all babys. I should know. I have a 1 year old brother.

Answered by ahhlife on Jun 17, 2008, 05:26PM
28 answers

life is way too long to have a baby at 15. do you think that you are ready for all that respondsibilty? its not like it is when it is babysitting, ITS ALL THE TIME. so just wait until your life is ready for you to have a baby, not just your mind, cause then it will be sooo much better for everyone. and your boyfriend would be put in jail cause it is illegal for adult (those over 18 years of age) and kids to have sex...
SO DON'T

me :) Answered by jax on Jun 10, 2008, 04:10PM
774 answers

Listen to babygirl!! Please, for both of your sakes!!

The mirror shot was accidental, :) Answered by gennaglessnerr on Jun 13, 2008, 03:07AM
578 answers

fuucckk no.

are you stupid?

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