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Should I give up on her?

This summer I went through a rough break up and I found this girl online to talk to. She’s a freshman at my college and we talked on a social site for a while. While talking online, she made all these statements saying she wanted to hang out a lot when we got back to college. We talked for maybe two weeks online until I moved on to text messaging her.

I went to her hometown one weekend to stay with a buddy in July. That Sunday, she invited me to a movie, but I couldn’t go for personal reasons, as I had to get back home. We continued to talk by text message until August, when she started dating this one guy. That lasted maybe 2 weeks and they were broken up.

I noticed this and started to make my move by trying to meet up with her. Probably two weeks ago, she mentioned she wanted to meet up that week. She got up with me and told me that she wanted to eat lunch together in the cafeteria that Thursday. We ate in the cafeteria that Thursday, and it was a good meeting. I noticed she was chewing her nails a lot, and not talking a lot, so maybe she was nervous. I noticed that she looked a lot in my general direction, since I was sitting across from her.

Now almost two weeks later, I haven’t heard from her. I’ve called her once and texted her two or three times, but I haven’t contacted her for the last several days. I got a restricted call last night, that I think might be her, but nobody answered me when I answered the call. I’ve gotten a lot of these, and they aren’t one guy who I knew did it.

Should I forget about her, or could she be playing hard to get?

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Answer #1

Edit>told you to YOUR face!

Answer #2

Changing all your OLD questions to “fau, and making a new account isnt going to get you the answers you want to hear!

You talked to a girl all summer, then started texting her. Then you FINALLY meet in person, and now she isnt returning your calls. Doesnt a lightbulb go on in your head at all? She never saw you before, and when she did, she didnt like what she saw. Would it have made you feel better if she just came out and told you to her face that you arent what she expected?

Do you seriously need a brick wall to fall on you for you to understand that this girl is NOT interested in you? You are OBSESSED with finding a girl…any girl who gives you the least bit of attention.

This girl isnt playing hard to get, as I told you numerous times before. SHE JUST ISNT INTERESTED!

Its really time you just give it up!

Answer #3

I’m sorry to say, but I’m a 20 year old woman ,

so this is the truth on a girls point of view, she liked talking to you, but once he meet you she just didn’t want you to fall for her, or she already was crushing on another guy, so she still would not want to be together, you should move on and find a nice girl!

ps don’t go crazy for her the first time you meet her too, use girls feel like we get hit on everyday in every way, and it doesn’t reaaly come across hot or sexy , but it can make a girl full of her self,with a guy calling and texting all the time, so if you just say hi and nice to meet you, let it come slowly, and don’t just jump in, life will let someone come when yo are not looking for them

Answer #4

She could be playing hard to get or as you mention she was really nervous when you had lunch together maybe she is embarrassed becuase of how that lunch went.

If she has started to ignore your messages and calls I would say thats not playing hard to get, thats her being no longer interested or she is out of credit to respond.

Have you tried appraoching her face to face again? you can usually guess a lot by someones reactions

Best of luck dude and hope you find the right Girl for you.

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