Should i give in and have sex with him..??

I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now, we are absolutely inlove with eachother. I am one of those people who likes taking relationships slow and believe in virginity till marriage. he has been real cool with all this, he never even attempted...

anything unless he knew I wanted to, we didn't even makeout till our 14 monthaversy. he's been talkin a lot lately about really wanting to have sex, but he wants to keep me happy and respect my wishes bout the whole virgin till marriage thing. however I feel like I'm letting him down and makin him unhappy. what should I do?? should I give up my morals and have sex with?? I mean he says he's willing to wait, but when he says that he looks totally disappointed and leaves, not coming home for several hours, than apologizes for leaving.

You should never give up your morals or beliefs just to please someone else. It's understandable if he feels a little disappointed, but if he cares about you, he will have to try to adjust to it.

Happiness doesn't come from sex purely; keep that in mind. You can make him happy many other ways.

NEVER GIVE UP MORALS!!! Ever!!! He sounds like a sweet enough guy to be telling the truth about respecting you, but that leaving for hours sounds sort of scary. It seems kind of important, I would talk about it with him.