Should i end or "relationship"

ok.we've known each other since we were little. he's insecure which to us means he dates more than one girl so he always has a gf..but he's dating one of my closest friends. i love him soo much and he loves me..but i think he loves me way to much..and i...

made my decision to not hurt my friend or end up getting hurt by him. i want to end our relationship and just be friends but i cant get over him at all. i've tried..but he's engaged for once..he says it wont last but i dont believe him.he says he's gonna leave her for me. but i dk what to belive...should we just be friends or keep this thing up? please help me

If you question weather or not you should be friends or in a realtionship. Clearly you do love him but you rather be friends to save anything bewteen you two. Honestly no body can tell you what to do. But in my opion i bealive you should end things once and for all and just end up being friends. But you need to distant yourself from him for a long while.

if he was really in love with you and respected you he wouldn't be dating other people. He must know that what he's doing is affecting you. That is not healthy. I know you love him but you'll end up getting hurt over and over. think about it.

i agree with princess....cuz if your akin this in the beginnin then u have a bad feeling about continuin the relationship.ok let mr get this straight he dates more than 1 girl at a time????damn.....well im not against that but if he does he cant call any1 his girlfriend cuz then that would be cheating..but if hes just datin and the girls do the same it ok....otherwise id advice u to get the hell away from him especially if his girl dosent no about this...cuz shell take it against you and if shes ur friend....ud be s.o.l.aand i think its smart of you to have made this decision...but if uve already made it.....y are u askin for advice?idk im as confuzed about this as you are now....on the one hand if you love him....wait it out but keep clear of the mess.....and if u just love the idea of him........go find sum1 thats worth you.

Hmmm...cool. He's...insecure :D Good one! ) Sorry, I cannot give you advice because you are the girl ) I think it's good for him to date other girls, don't you think? Do whatever you want to do but I think you like him too much to break up with him ;D

ok... im insecure but i manage to stick to one person... this guy sounds a bit of a wank, ive been in your situation before and my one regret in life is that i wasnt the one who got rid of him, this will fuck with your head for years after trust me, get him out of your life.

well let's see if he's willing to leave one for another who's to say he won't leave you for another i'd say be friends if you want be realtionship if you want to get hurt.

hey, sounds like the boys a player! If you want to get trapped in a relationship that lasts like this forever, you know the whole, i love you, but I'm with HER, then by all means, stay with him. If not, move on. I PROMISE you WILL get over him, i PROMISE, it'll hurt for a long time, but with the right amount of time, and good friends you WILL get over him. Also, you sound young, I am a bit young myself, so I know these things, don't throw everything away for one guy, you have a whole lifetime to spend looking for the right guy. You sound like an innocent enough girl, so, just keep looking, and move on, and have fun!

Talk to him! Dont let him use you! I think you know the truth and I feel like you wont loose your feelings unless you stop being friends cause you see him and there they are again!