Should we have a threesome?

I've been married for 12 years, everything is wonderful I love my husband very much. But I recently told him I would love to have a threesome, with another girl and him of course. So now my question is were do I look for someone that is willing to do...

something like that. And would our relationship be the same afterwords?

If your not the jealous type, then more power to you. It could change things...bad or good!

Dear mimi003,
Since you didn't ask whether having a treesome is a good idea and will ruin the relationship I will keep this short. The stats show that a threesome will almost always break up a relationship. Most who feel the need for one are bored and unsatisfied with their sex life. That or they are bisexual and shouldn't have married knowing they could never be fully satisfied with just one sex. You did ask if the relationship would be the same and again I can only quote the stats that say no, it will never be the same again. I would suggest you seek out marriage counselling or discover a way to spice things up with the two of you only.
Sue...good luck

Since this is a new impression of the real life this threesome may make your marraiage better. Do not worry about this.

To answer your questions: You can find these women or couples with bi-females at lifestyle parties and clubs, personal ads, and lifestyle sites. Your relationship will NOT be the same. It will either be better than ever and stronger, it may not survive, or it will just be a bit different with the 3-way just a memory.
3-ways can be a lot of fun. Your guy needs to be very understanding and not pushy. Set your rules/guidelines and stick to them. Discuss what happened and how you each felt about it afterwords. Communication is very important.

I think that if your in a good relationship with good communication a threesome can actually strengthen a relationship. Of course there has to be rules and the couple should be comfortable talking about it together befrore they attempt it. They should spend some time going over what there comfortable with and what there not, also it has to be for the right reasons, some women only consider it because they think thats what their men want but thats not the right reason, the women has to want it to, it has to be something she also fantasizes about, something that is a big turn on for her. If this is something you really want to do research it, talk about it a lot with your partner and make some rules and go for it, it could be one of the most amazing sexual experiences you ever have.