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Should i believe him, and take the chance of looking like a fool?

Asked by cowtipper148 over 6 years ago, 2 answers.

I went out with this guy david for two and a half years. then, we broke up for no reason. now we havent really talked much in 3 years. but I always cared about him, and all his friends and my friends always told me how he always told them that he missed...

me and things like that. for the last month or so, him and I have been really gettin to know eachother again. and its great. theres definently that same chemistry there, and more because we are older. so anyway, one night he came to my house, and my friend was there, so we all went for a walk. (He had a friend with him too) while we were out walkin, I took him aside and told him how I had heard that now he had tried some drugs. nothing even close to hard, juss screw around things. but I told him that if we were to ever get close, that he would have to stop. he promised and promised he would. and I believed him. it was nothing addicting after all. well, last night my friend told me that she had heard that he had gone out and done it again at lunch that day. I finally asked him about it today, and we talked forever about it, and he promised that he didnt do it. he hadnt done it since I asked him not to, and he doesnt plan on it ever again. now I dont know if I should believe him,which I really want to do, or juss argue with him and tell him how much I dont believe him.if I believe him, then theres the chance that maybe somehow hes lying. then I look like the dense fool. but if hes not lying, and I keep asking him ect, then that could upset him and ruin our could-be relationship. HELP.

Answered by shayleh on Jun 06, 2003, 12:42AM
8 answers

Sorry to say this, but RUN! Get away while you can. He is just doing what he is doing to fit in. If he left you once, let it go. You will always care about him, and that is fine. But get away now. Don#039;t let the feelings start all over. If he tried to lie before I bet you $100.00 he#039;s doing it now. Just my opinion. Good Luck!

Answered by cowtipper148 on Jun 10, 2003, 10:00PM

thanks for the comment.... im thinkin im takin your advice! its gonna be hard, but itll probably be easier in the long run. thanks

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