Should I be worried?

Sorry guys, this is as long as a book, but I'd like some help.

Okay so my boyfriend has a palm pilot for his cell phone and today while he was in the shower I was just going through it to see how it worked and stuff. Of course when I found the messaging, I got curious. Most of them were from me and his guy friends, but there were a kind of a lot from this girl he works with. You can change like the message folder you're viewing and there's a folder for deleted messages and that folder had all messages from this girl. I didn't read them because I'm not nosy and I wasn't trying to invade his privacy because I trust and respect him. But when he came into his room I just said Lindsey texts you a lot he took his phone and said yeah I delete them all because it's so annoying and she texts me all the time. And he said he thinks that makes his phone freeze having so many messages so he deletes hers and he deleted the folder that had all her deleted messages in there, but not the inbox or the outbox. which had about 3500 texts in each. I keep thinking that he deleted them so I wouldn't read them. Like he's trying to hide something from me. I know he doesn't have feelings for her, but I'm just bothered by the situation for some reason.

Like why would he delete them all if it weren't so I couldn't read them? I mean I guess he could just not want to worry me or something. I don't know. I'll take any advice, please.

hmm...well you say you trust him right? Maybe you should just let this one go. I feel the same way one time I was looking at my boyfriends facebook and noticed that mostly girls write on his wall but he is seriously just friends with him. Maybe your boyfriend is just friendly and nothing more. You say you know he doesn't have feelings for her so trust your judgement. If it still bothers you after a while ask him hows lindsay? Is she still annoying you with the messages? That will force him to talk about her then maybe you can find out the truth through what he says and how open he is to talk about her.

I wudnt worry about it very much if you say you trust him. maybe it really was just taking up space and his phone.... but really if I were you and I new that he ddnt have feelngs 4 her I wud totally just let this 1 go!
best of luck!!!

I wudnt worry about it very much if you say you trust him. maybe it really was just taking up space and his phone.... but really if I were you and I new that he ddnt have feelngs 4 her I wud totally just let this 1 go!
best of luck!!!

He's probably just a flirty guy and didn't want to hurt you, so dont be worried cause he loves you, and likes to flirt with her. so your good.

ehhh... I don't know. It sounds a little weird to me. Do you know if this girl likes your boy? Are you absolutely sure he doesn't have a thing for her? I mean, if her texts are so annoying, why would he go through the trouble of deleting every single one? I guess it's really a matter of opinion but then why delete the folder containing a few annoying texts from her and not the hundreds of other texts. Wouldn't those text messages also slow up his phone or make it freeze too? And the fact that he only thought of this after you mentioned seeing them on his phone makes it even more weird.
You say you trust him, but the situation bothers you a lot, even after his explanation. Maybe, subconsciously, you're picking up on something like his reaction or his body language, that is making you doubt him? Or maybe it really is nothing.
I don't know. I'm not trying to make you weary of your guy or anything, but his story sounds a little lame to me. But then again, I've also been cheated on so maybe I'm biased.
Just an opinion though...

It does sound a bit strange... I can't blame you for being worried though. I would be too. I always hated it when my boyfriend talked to other girls..even just as friends. But I can admit that I'm a tad jealous lol. Should you be worried? Honestly, no I don't think so. And I know it might be hard, or awkward to do- I think you should talk to him about it if it bothers you. Not in a I'm accusing you of something way, but more of I'm concerned, I don't want to lose you way. It's the only way to be sure. But you'll have to trust him with the answer that he gives you. Trust that he's being truthful, and that he cares as much about the relationship as you do.