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Should i be upset about this?

aaah :) Asked by imprettycool0 9 months ago, 7 answers.

So me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and some how we got to talking about smoking drinking. I asked him if he'd ever drank - he has. Once. He said he didn't like it. I asked him if he'd smoked, he said he has! Once. He hated it. But the...

fact that he SMOKED and DRANK and DIDNT tell me, makes me upset. Is it okay? He says I'm overreacting and I should forget about it. But I feel hurt, and I've told him that. But he says I'm overeacting. aaah xD

i like fountains. Answered by melovesyouu on Feb 23, 2009, 06:17PM
589 answers

How long have you been dating?
Did he do these things while you were dating?
If it was before you started dating, I wouldn't get too upset (unless you've been dating for a REALLY long time) because its kind of awkward just to say oh, I think you should know that I drank and smoked once but I hated it and will never do it again, because some people wouldn't even care. And its not like you'd asked before and he lied about it.

before going out. Answered by layashea on Feb 23, 2009, 06:18PM
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I think your way overreacting.
so he tried it, and didn't like it.
he won't do it again.
be glad he was honest and didn't like it.

me and my gf jacey Answered by austink099 on Feb 23, 2009, 06:18PM

it depends how old you 2 r.. it should be such a big deal if it was a one time thing that he didnt like.

Answered by wonderer123 on Feb 23, 2009, 06:20PM
152 answers

you kinda are... every 1 is gonna smoke/ drink eventually... its his decision your his girlfriend not his mom... you should be suportive and not judge if you start nagging and getting mad at little things then hes gonna want to hide them from u ... so just joke itoff so what if he TRIED it. every1 is curous just tell him that next time you want to know and don't flip out at him...

aaah :) Answered by imprettycool0 on Feb 23, 2009, 06:20PM
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We're both 15. We've been dating for almost 3 years.

aaah :) Answered by imprettycool0 on Feb 23, 2009, 07:29PM
1182 answers

Wonderer123, not everyone will drink or smoke!

Answered by smallispowerful on Jul 01, 2009, 07:29PM
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Hey, I think that you are overreacting because it is such a big deal he didn't tell you.
I'm not trying to say this in a bad way. He didn't tell you because you didn't ask: you should be glad that he tells you the truth when you do ask him.
SIP

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