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Should I ask him out?

Asked by rainbow_dots123 6 months ago, 2 answers.

Ok. So I'm in the 7th grade and I'm a 13 year old girl. There is one guy in 8th grade who I've really liked for two years now. Me and him are only friends, not even. We talk sometimes, but not regularly. The problem is, he might be moving to Florida at the end of the year. I really like him and I don't know if I should ask him out and take a chance or not! My friends are forcing me to! But I don't know! I'm afraid he will say no. Even though I'm kinda pretty and I'm very outgoing and funny (Many people say), I don't know what he will say! I'm also afraid that I might embarrass myself if he says no. And what if he doesn't move to Florida! Then I would be even more embarrassed! Please help me!

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coke Answered by pinkpearl on Jan 13, 2008, 08:00AM
| 1514 answers.

Decide already that he's going to say no... and think about how you will live with that afterwards. Its actually a strengthening excercise. As you grow, you discover that life is not a popularity contest, and nothing bad happens to us when we're occasionally 'rejected' by peers or potential employees.

Think about this. You don't want him to say no, yet at the same time, you'd never want him to say 'Yes' if it wasn't sincere. So really, you DO want him to be sincere... you're just worried about your ego and how you will appear to him afterwards and what your friends will think of you. Right? So just try to take the focus off yourself and see how simple things will get

Easier said than done? Some acting is involved at first. Trust me - it will pave the way to great self confidence!

Answered by curly_que on Jan 14, 2008, 08:28PM
| 141 answers.

it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.
I have 1 1/2 years left to tell a guy ow I feel about him. if I dont take the chance, I'll never know how he felt about me. (im a junior in highschool and I've known him since 6th grade liked him since freshman year)

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