Why does she make me feel insecure?

I adore my girlfriend, she's sexy, smart, funny, charming, etc. She's sitting on a pedestal, for sure at this point in our relationship. The odd thing, I can't seem to feel 'secure', comfortable and confident when I'm around her. She says she likes a strong, aggressive, confident man. I'm not feeling that way at all when I'm around her. I want to get rid of these insecure feelings, that are useless. I'm afraid she's going to see me a weak, unattractive, and leave me. I think I have infatuation emotions going CRAZY on me!!??! Any advice and how to gain back my confidence?

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Man, I seriously know what your talking about...

may be you should stop comparing yourself 2 the confidant man she wants an instead me your self when you act your self thats seen has confidant so just dont think to much an dont try an act sumfin your not. if she loves you she wont leave you. she mght c you has confidant an all them things you might just b thinkin shes not.

she shouldn't be telling you how she wants you to look or be. You are you, and both of you should come to terms about that.
It's obvious you care very muh for your partner, and you want to satisfy her in anyway you can, and you should be proud.
But being told to do something or to be something by someone you love can lead to future problems in the realationship.
Talk to her girlfriend and tell her you are you. It may be tough, but if you want to care for her, you need to make sure she cares for you first...

Good Luck!

x

she must obviously like you otherwize she wouldnt be with you.. she is with you because of who you are.. she must be happy otherwize she would move on...