She loves me but she has a boyfriend

Last year I met this girl and I completly fell in love with her.
She has a boyfriend , but she was like everyday visiting me at my house ,because it wasn't going well in her relationship.

Later on she fell also in love with me , we are even having sex now but still she wont leave him .
Many times we had arguements and I told her why she doesn't leave him and she answers me: " I just can't ."

Once she tried to leave him but the next day she went back because he told her that he would work on their relation .
And now he is completely changed (how a boyfriend is supposed to do ) but still she visits me and we are doing are "stuff".

The reason why we have arguements is because I'm tired of hiding , I can't do anything with her in public , everytime I have to be in my house with her.

About sex : it's her first boyfriend , so many things she didn't know , I taught her a view and now she is doing things with me , she never even did with her boyfriend .

What must I do ?? should I leave her?? Should I wait ???(I waited too long)
Or should I just go to her boyfriend and tell him that his girlfriend is cheating on him with me??

Help me please , I tired of this

you said your self you have been waiting to long shes probably just in love with being in love. you said that was her first boyfriend so shes new to all of this and it sounds like she likes you more if she is doing things with you instead of him. just talk to her about it and let her know how you feel.

Why make her your priority, when she is only making you her option?

If she truly "loved" you in the right way, she wouldnt be putting you on the back burner. Sorry, but sex doesnt make a relationship!! Its obvious that she isnt going to leaver her boyfriend, so why are you so desperate to hold on? Shes cheating on her boyfriend, she'll do it to you one day!

Angelfire - You are right , but I keep holding on to her because I love her .
I know it's stupid because she wont leave him .
The only way she'll leave him is when he finds out .

About the cheating : the way I see it , she started to cheat because it wasn't going well between her and her boyfriend .
He wasn't spending time with her and I'm not that type , I like to spend time with my girlfriend .

About that she will cheat on me one day : that depends on me I think .
I know I would take controle of her the moment she becomes my Girlfriend .
And I would watch her carefully ...

Lababoo - Thanks for your reply !!! but I talked so many times with her , but she stays with her decision .
She wont leave him .

You say that she likes me more , but why is it then so difficult to leave him ??? It soo difficult for me to understand because in everything you do more with me , she even accepts and knows that she does more with me but still you won't leave him .
She says she loves us both .

like I said , the only way to let her leave her boyfriend is when he finds out that she is cheating.

Lababoo - Thanks for your reply !!! but I talked so many times with her , but she stays with her decision .
She wont leave him .

You say that she likes me more , but why is it then so difficult to leave him ??? It soo difficult for me to understand because in everything you do more with me , she even accepts and knows that she does more with me but still you won't leave him .
She says she loves us both .

like I said , the only way to let her leave her boyfriend is when he finds out that she is cheating.

Reyke, I've been in your shoes before. Though after two years she was gone from my life. You need to be carefull with how you do things. Its like a chess game think several moves ahead. I'm only a psych student so nothing I say is leget yet lol unless you want to believe me. You have a choice buts its sort of a hit or miss. Tell her you no longer wish to see her. Raise your voice show a lil anger. Be carefull not to do to much though. Just so your resolve. Show her you mean what your about to say. Tell her she has to choose you or him. Tell her how you can be better be angry its ok. Dont go overboard though. It might take some time a few weeks maybe more. But if she really likes you she'll hate the fact she can't see you. Sometimes... Breaking someones heart is the only option. Because when a broken heart heals it becomes stronger. A warning though. Toy with this too much and she'll eventually leave. Right now if this keeps up she'll stay with him and not you. Do something now. Good luck.

Hey Maruku , Thanks a lot LOL , I did this so many times , we don't speak for maybe a week and then she sends you a text message : " I miss You " and there you go again hahahha
it's so difficult man

what then???