Does it hurt when you lose your virginity?

renee and i Asked by mackeysbabygurl over 2 years ago, 89 answers.

Does it hurt when you lose your virginity?

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Answered by kimmie261108 on Sep 17, 2008, 11:10AM
6 answers

it hurts kinda but its a lot of pressure then it eases up but it hurts a little I will amitt that

Answered by mz_anonymous on Oct 26, 2008, 08:45PM
47 answers

It just feels tight, like a tense sensation but you get used to it after like 5 minutes.

me&&the boyfriend Answered by mariahtosten on Nov 03, 2008, 12:17AM

im only 13 year old and no it did not hurt me at all my boyfriend is 14 with a big dick soo when it whent in it felt soo good I lost my Virginity like 3 hours ago and im fine im walkin normal and very thing if you want to know more let me know I have a myspace!!

me Answered by emz_19891 on Nov 05, 2008, 06:53AM
5 answers

im not trying to put you off but it did hurt me,probly because we didnt use lube or a condom im 18 and lost it last month,I no your situation I was like you it does hurt I didnt bleed either so,dont just sleep with anyone make sure hes right for you I made that mistake and had a one night stand just to get rid of it.

and the best is, no one knows who you are Answered by majesticalangel on Jan 06, 2009, 03:30PM

I am 14 years old,
I'm still a virgin.
therefore I don't know what it would feel like to loose your virginity.
my boyfriend and I have been planning this for 2 weeks now.
he is kinda big and I'm scared actually, if it wasn't for that I wouldn't be that terrified.
but I've been told plenty of times,
that if you lie on your back, and your boyfriend is on top with his stomache facing you, that it won't hurt so bad.
that is also considered as Millitary Position.
and extra lubrication, which is also made onto certain type of condoms.
I need advice for myself on this one,
the only thing I'm scared about is me riping open and crying,
well I hope everything goes well with this.
thanks.

in my room Answered by kia_babi on Jan 20, 2009, 07:36PM
9 answers

YES! if your a girl
its wasnt till the 4th or 5th time I had
sex before it stopped hurting
but maybe thats just me

it depends on the size of his penius
and how many times you do it
or how long

not really sure but I know it hurt like hell!!

Answered by caj on Feb 05, 2009, 05:50PM
14 answers

My First Time Was Soo Painfull ..
We Eventualy Had To Stop I COuldnt Manage ,,
I Had Tears In My Eyes ,, But I Think It Depends On The
Guys Size,, He Was Rather Large So I Supose That Was Why

Answered by caj on Feb 05, 2009, 05:50PM
14 answers

My First Time Was Soo Painfull ..
We Eventualy Had To Stop I COuldnt Manage ,,
I Had Tears In My Eyes ,, But I Think It Depends On The
Guys Size,, He Was Rather Large So I Supose That Was Why

Answered by omg101 on Feb 12, 2009, 12:48PM

For me I just lost my virginity yesterday to my best guy friend and he told me to tell him when it hurt.It hurt the first time he put it in so I told him to stop he did then we tried again just hurt a lil bit but it starts feeling good after while.But I guess it depends on the person and I didnt bleed at all

Answered by chyna on Feb 15, 2009, 07:17PM
5 answers

I am about to lose my virginity to my boyfriend but im kinda young so I wont mention my age..lol...n I dont think it will hurt because ma boyfriend's dick really isnt that big..LML...but im scared I'll get pregnant mannn...

Answered by luna22545 on Feb 19, 2009, 12:49AM

I just lost my virginity last nigth and it hurt like hell for about a minute, but I guess that was because we had to rush through. I felt a lot of pressure at first but eventually you get use to it, just try not to tense up, that'll make it hurt a lot worse...

Answered by blu1blu on Feb 20, 2009, 11:24PM

It always depends on the woman her pain tolerance.

For me, personally, it only hurt a little when I lost my virginity...even with lube! But after a few minutes into the sex, it was great. If you are thinking about having sex for the first time, I'll spare you the lecture of safety first! since I'm sure ( hope!) that you know what kind of cautions to take when deciding to have sex.

But take it slow at first, let him do the work once you feel like you're more comfortable there's little to none pain, explore different positions wink

Good luck!

Answered by mandee on Feb 21, 2009, 11:18AM

actually it depends on your body. when I lost my verginity it didnt hurt at all...it was a little awkward but no pain for me.

yumyum Answered by littleyumyum on Feb 23, 2009, 10:43AM
6 answers

Yes it did hurt, but not a lot for me I wasn't sore for long. Maybe it was because my boy friend was very gentle. We masturbated each other and gave each other oral sex a lot before we decided to have intercourse. He went down on me and licked and sucked my clitoris while he teased my vagina by putting a finger just a little inside me until I came. When I started to have an orgasm it felt so good I didn't want it to stop and I started to cry. He held me and told me he loved me and wanted to be inside me I let him put his penis in very slowly. He was really gentle and it took a long time because he didn't go deep until I told him I was ready. It hurt a little, I'll be honest, but it made me feel like I was giving myself to him and the pain was Ok. Even then as soon as he was all the way in me we just held each other like that for a long while while he kissed me and told me how much he loved me. Then he took his penis out and there was a little blood on it, but I wiped it off with my panties begged him to let me suck him so I could give him an orgasm. His sperm tasted so good and it made feel really sexy to swallow all of it. We waited a few days before having intercourse again and when we did it was really hot and I love him so much!

Answered by bramble on Mar 02, 2009, 09:25AM
11 answers

no it is pleasureable

moi <3 Answered by ray18 on Mar 03, 2009, 03:53PM
283 answers

hell yeah it kills haha.

Answered by mohid on Mar 05, 2009, 12:21AM

Actually love is the bird she needs to fly...
So for a girl,, just take it easy, and think you feel better, take it enjoyble relax urself.
If your boy frnd well expert enough to make you relax and well weted.
For first time you have to tell your boy frnd to go slowly after weted...
Every thing is possible if both of you wants to with enormous love...hopefully it heaven for both of u

Answered by outoftowner on Mar 09, 2009, 06:15PM

I guess it depends on your body ..for me it hurt a lot we had to stop halfway cause the pain was horrible but some o my friends said that it didnt hurt for them so it really depends on your pain tolerance

Answered by outoftowner on Mar 09, 2009, 06:18PM

for me it hurt a lot, but my pain tolerance isnt very high..it all depends on your body..it hurt a lot we had to stop half way thru cause I was in so much pain but now its ok..the pain goes away after a couple of days..like I said it all depends on your pain tolerance

only me Answered by bebex2 on Mar 12, 2009, 06:50PM

well im 15 and I lost mine 3mths ago by my mothers friend son who had sleep over and we were really feeling each other so we took a chance and did it but because it was MY frist time it really didnt go in so far but the lil it did it hurt and.. lol.. I was sayin oh yea rite there! so he would think he didnt need 2 push and anymore but really I was saying it cause it was hurting and I didnt want him 2 push in anymore but im ready 2 get more because now im and luv and I really want 2 do my long like boyfriend but I don't know how its gonna feel nw

SOME 1 please HELP and ANSWER ME ASAP!!!

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