Sexless wife

An increasingly frustrating problem, I have initiated counceling, dinner and shows, flowers, I do most of the cooking and a good deal of the cleaning. I am polite, and need sex all the time, so I ask, and make it clear that it cant be ignored, as it...

makes me very unhappy. she on the other hand is never ever up for it. I am considering an affair, or an other arangement just so i can have a release and experience some intamacy. (have a beautiful young boy, so not going anywhere). Any guys got some options (or girls).
On the very odd ocasion we make love, she finishes first and i have to stop, i go to great lengths to make it nice for her (before you ask)

wtf???Brentblack get a life..
MR. How would you feel in your wifes Situation?..Probably not good..Dont cheat..She'll find out and she'll Probably get rid of you..MOST women arent in to sex..dont do it..find some other way

you should tell you wife we are married now you should trust me or go have couple therpy

In your place I would make steps for finding a good lover, maybe a married lady who are in the same situation at home. There are many. Men and women, does not matter, have to accept that if he/she cannot provide something (physical or emotional) what is important for a well balanced and healty life, the other person may have steps for that. Of course, you must not abase your wife by your activity out of your home. Be gentle and discrete.

No no no... before you go outside, try to solve the problem on the inside. There may be something bothering her. Maybe she feels she's not as attractive anymore and is ashamed of her body. Maybe she's having gynecological problems and it doesn't feel comfortable or hurts. Maybe there's something on her mind that's not letting her relax and enjoy. There can be millions of reasons, and she probably isn't talking because she doesn't want to burden you with her problems, or because you haven't asked what's wrong... Don't know. Women like talking though, and like it when a man not only tries to win himself some sex by doing the dishes, but who also cares to investigate into why it is that his woman doesn't want sex. Ask her what's wrong, show concern - show that you care about *her* problem before you care about *yours*. That will at least make her go awww and share her side of the story. If you get to that stage, it's a lot easier to work things out from there. Just talk to her.