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Sexless relationship

Asked by imnice about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

My relationship has been sexless for 2 years. My boyfriend prefers internet porn to me. I love him but I'm miserable. Talking with him is out of the question. I'm sure he loves me but I feel he is not into me. I'm gay and get cruised by guys fairly...

regularly and I'm hungry to be touched. What should I do?

Answered by snowboarder on Dec 31, 2006, 01:32AM
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find another boyfriend

Answered by bubux007 on Dec 31, 2006, 04:20AM
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At least for sex you have to find somebody..

Answered by locoluna on Jan 01, 2007, 02:18AM
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if you want to save your relationshi with your boyfriend you need to sit him down seriously and speak to him, in a relationship communication is very important and the fact you feel like you cant even go to him about your feelings is already enough to rethink your relationship. And every person deserves to have a passionate and healthy sex life but you havent had sex in 2 years and your in a relationship!!! if you want to save your relationship sorry the only thing to do is speak to your boyfriend and tell him things need to change and soon, you are a human and deserve to be loved and touched, not ignored for a computer. If I were in your situation I would have left a long time ago. I think you deserve a lot better and need to leave.

Answered by my2centsworth on Jan 02, 2007, 01:12AM
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I know of 2 couples, one straight and one gay and their relationships ended because of the same situation. It seems this internet porn and sexless relationship is becoming to be a really major issue in many relationships. He is clearly into sex but not into you. Someone who does not want to have sex with you merely wants a friendship. He loves you like he loves his brother. It sounds like you are really in love with him to stick with him for 2 sexless years...but you have to think of yourself.

Answered by outgoing on Jan 07, 2007, 10:07PM
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I am in somewhat the same situation, I am in a sexless relationship, we've been together year and half, in the last six months we might have had sex 3 times, maybe 4, he says he has a low sex drive and it is not me, I came home the other day and got on my laptop and some porn he had been looking up came up, he acts like it's not a big deal, well I don't believe looking at porn is a big deal, but I felt like crap because he's not having sex with me because of low sex drive but he's looking up naked women, what's your partner saying is the reason he doesn't want to have sexual relations with you? it's just not about sex, I need passion, answer back and let see if we can figure this out together, love hearing from you!!!

Answered by diemthuy1980 on May 19, 2007, 09:08PM

I am in the same situation like you. I am in a sexless relationship. Me and my boyfriend we have been together three year and half. We have sex only once a week. Most of the time I am horny and I asked him for sex and he tells me why are you so horny. He always give me excuses like I am really tired and work and I am bored of sex. He always watches porn on the internet and he download them. It's human nature. Everybody wants to have sex. I think man wants sex more than woman. He also mas*erba*e 2-3 times a week. He mas*erba*e more than he has sex with me. He prefer to mas*erba*e than having real sex. I feel very sad and angry because I feel that I am unattractive and I don't satisfied him that is why he watches porn and mas*erba*e. I am scared to open up to him and tell him how I feel about this relationship. Do you think porn is an addiction? Is mas*erb*ting a habit? Do you think he lost interest in woman? Can he be in denial of being gay? I need your advice and help. I would love to hear from you.

Answered by midnight1033 on Jun 11, 2007, 10:30AM
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get another boy friend or tell him how you feel. if that doesn't work try mas*urbat*on//

Answered by breahbaby on Jun 29, 2008, 09:39AM
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talk to him girl, just let him know what he's doing to you & how unhappy you are - if he does nothing about it. leave him automatically. that should tell you something. if he doesn't do anything about it.

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