Sexless relationship

my boyfriend I have being dating for a year half. in the last 6months we maybe have had sex 3 times, he says he has a problem with low sex drive, i was using the computer yesterday and i noticed he had been on several porn sites and stores, what...

should i think, you can only imagine how i felt

ya you'd feel like crap run over twice, i reckon you should talk to your bf and tell him how you feel and things need to change. Theres nothing wrong with losing your sex drive, he just needs to get to the core of whats causing him to lose his sex drive and make some changes to fix it becos he is only pushing you away when he neglects you. he may risk losing you if he doesnt plan to change,

Three times sex during 6 months is the best sign of low sex drive, indeed, and interestingly this is not against of watching porn sites. Even then, your boy-friend does not seem to be very open and srtaight with you because he should have let you into his secret sexual thoughts.

i think that u should watch porn while ur having sex and try someof the things they do

This could be another issue than him being a closet perv that only likes internet porn over real sex. First, examine if you can the type of porn he was looking at. Maybe he has a fetish that he is ashamed to talk about with you. Give him the benefit of the doubt first and don't assume that the best recourse is to confront him. You may have already done so, since this is an older thread, but for anyone else reading..... Communication is key in a relationship and without it you could have these problems. I have a suspicion that the internet porn might not be satisfying him either. This could frustrate him and only make the problems worse. Try talking with him openly and honestly without blame or the you word, but by expressing how I feel or I perceive without getting angry or accusatory.

My wife and I have issues, but those are from trauma in her past that was drudged out in therapy and has put a big hurt on my sex life for almost four years now. I love her and I will never cheat on her. I respect her and I know that one day again we will have that connection once more. I just personally have a biased hatred toward therapists now, but I do hope that it helps her. What your other needs to know, as I have neglected to do, is to also let them know how this affects you without the use of ultimatums or guilt trips. You have to take care of yourself, and if the relationship isn't working for you and you don't see it working in the future, then cut it off before it causes more pain. Take a break and take care of yourself...... I just wish I could follow my own advice.