Sex with my girlfrind?

Hey my name is Lynn. I’m 13 years old going to be 14 on about a month, and I’m bisexual. I’ve got this girlfriend who I really like. We’ve only been dating about a week. But she is pretty, smart, nice, funny, and she has good plans for her life as far as...

I can see. She’s had sex with girls before. With her ex. And she was asking me if we would have that type of realationship. I really do want to. I think I’m ready and so is my body. Plus its not like I can get pregnant. But my body is really ugly. Its not just my opinon its true. For some reason I have nipples. I have the spot where they should be but theyre not popped out. My “___” is really hairy, I have scars, and stretch marks. So would it be a good idea or not? What if she sees my body and is turned off or something??? Pleas HELP!!!

in order to be completely ready to be intimate and comfortable with that significant other, you need to feel comfortable with yourself. I know from experience, if you dont love how you look-any shape, form, color, etc..then it's not fun and more of a burden having sex with your girlfriend. If she is unable to understand you may not be all the way ready, then she isn't a true girlfriend.

Anyways, I'll stop preeching, but please dont rush into things. I was fifteen when I had my very first girlfriend and I too thought I was ready..I wasn't. You'll know

good luck!

Oh BTW- No one really pays attention to your scars, nipples, body hair, etc. Just enjoy it.

1st of all you are only 13! how old is this other girl? You say she has already had other sexual partners...please dont think that just because she may not have had sex with a boy that you cant get disaeases...
this girl may be smart, pretty and seem like she has a future already planned out, but if she is young like you, she is still a child and if she is older, she should know better then messing with a 13 yr old...
save yourself for the RIGHT one...dont do something you WILL regret later...physically a persons hormones give you the feelings that it is right and yes sex feels good, but please wait...you have so much to learn and I dont mean that in a bad way , I mean it as, you are 13 and you have so much life ahead of you...dont make a history for yourself of bad choices and putting yourself up for possibility of a bad rep...school is tough enough and there is so much peer preasure out there...dont fall into the trap of doing what others do...set yourself apart and be proud of waiting and enjoy being a kid...for 13 IS still a kid and have fun doing kid things, not adult acts

at your age you shouldnt be having sex with anyone (of any gender)
you can still get an std, and you wont have any sex education either
learn about sex first before you go off having it
also, if your worried about your nipples see a dcotor
your vagina is supposed to be hairy, everyone hads hair down there. if you dont like it you can remove it
and almost everyone has stretchmarks and scars

you can have sex only if your ready and if you really like each other you can just enjoy the sex. you don't have to be pretty to do and I'm sure that you are pretty everyone is pretty in their own special way. but don't be worried but seriously if you two wanna have sex just incase get some birth control I'm not saying anything like you're gonna get pregnant with a girl just incase something goes wrong.