Sex with girlfriend

Well, me and my girlfriend ar both 16, and we are both ready to take our relationship to the next level. But she keeps jumping back and forth saying "I really want to have sex, but dont know if I should wait, so let me think more"... Dont get me wrong...

tho, im willing to wait as long as she wants to, I love her verry much and I have no need to persue something she doesnt wonna do. But im just getting frustrated of her not making up her mind, what should I do?

Don't worry or be so frustrated about it. You said you're willing to wait for her as long as she needs to. That pretty much says that you love her enough and answers your question.

I know, but im just the type of person to make up my mind right away, and I tend to want people to do the same. bad... I know... but thats just me.
anyone els help me out?

well I know you said ud wait. she is just scaring herself by the thought of concequences. let her know that you love her very much and you will wait as long as she wants to but she should keep thinking and not say that she wants to have sex unless she is 120% sure and you will wait for her answer whenever it comes. that way she wont keep tellingu that she wants to have sex but she is not sure all the time and you can get out of your mind that she didnt make up her decition yet because you just did for her. you pretty much told her not to have sex yet an to wait until she is ready. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

well if she is a virgin then she is unsure whether or not she wants to give it up. I would give it time. and the more you are there for her, the more she will trust you.

but making her choose whether or not to have sex, will only make her regret her decision. let her decide and when the time is right you will know her answer.

ok. ty 4 your help

Well, if you really love her, then her not being able to make up her mind shouldnt frustrate you. She has every right to think long and hard, because maybe she wants to lose her virginity (if she still is) to the guy she is going to spend the rest of her life with. You have to understand that just because you are her boyfriend doesnt mean she has to have sex with you. Let it go until SHES 100% ready!

she is a virgin, and we r going to spend the rest of our lives togeather. we are already making payments on a house,

if shes jumping back and forth its probably because shes just scared of getting pregnant or some consequence like that
I think you guys should just let what happens happen and not really plan it soo much because its way more special that way and dont pressure her either because she'll just regret it later caz she'll feel like you pushed her into it

I dont pressure her at all. infact I dont even ask to have sex, it just comes up from time to time

well, perhaps you could let her know that you'd be well equipped with a condom and spermicide, and there's also this stuff called Plan B that if she's really worried about becoming pregnant, she could take up to 72 hours after.
It isn't a self-confidence thing is it? For her? Maybe she's worried you won't like it and think less of her somehow? Or that going to this next level would change things in a bad way?

no, she loves her body, and she knows I love her body. and I havnt said anything bout condoms to her becouse she might take it as "I wonna do it now" but I reasured her she wont get pregnant, and I dont think that is it either. I think she might be worried that it will change our relationship for the worst.how do I fix that?