How to know when I'm ready for sex?

when do I know when I ready to have sex? and does it hurt?
what can I use (not the pill) so I am garonteed not to get pregnent?

It should really be when you are physically and emotionally ready. And when you are in a loving trusting relationship with someone.
There is no contraception that is 100% effective. There is always a chance by mishap that you could get pregnant.
I suggest using a condom. It will also protect you from any Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
It may hurt the first time. A lot of people usually do experience pain but it is usually of no bother to them.

there is no guarantee. no matter how safe you are there is still a chance of pregnancy.

I would wait until you are out of high school to have sex.

Consider this. GOd loves you and he created you and when he formed you in your mother's womb he knew that when you fgrew up you woudl desiore to love a man and have sex. SO he created one special guy oin the earth to be your husbadn abd he created you to be that guys wife.

God wants us not to have sex with anyone else but that perosn he made for us.
Why?
becasue ther are germs inour private areas. When we have sex these germs get transfered and they stay in our body for the rest of our loves and are apssed down to all our children and their for ever tim the eind of time.
SOme of these germs a few of them can cause diseases.
Can you understand that each family has certain germs. Germs cause problems some cause defects in birth andothers cause problems that can lead to death.

To slow down the spread of these germs and th emingling GOd has tried to get most humans to not have sex until they are married and then onky do it with that one perosn.

Also there are mental reasons for waiting and faith reasons.

GOd loves you and the most exciting thing that will happen to you in your life is when you have sex. YOU will say things like OH God? THat feels good. And GOd wantsit to feel good. He created ytou and put htis strong desire in you to experience that feeling.

Do you understand that the first timeyou have sex and when you are hyman breaks that some thing physiological takes place in your brain and you become attached in a certin way to the first guy you have sex with.

THi si swhy it is important to have your first sex wiht your husband na dnot with anyone else.
If oyu have sex with som oen before you are married you wil be training your self and teaching your self to be unfatihful to your husband.

GOd made you husband for you and that perosn is the one who you can have the best marriage to and have the best sex with if you will trust GOd that God loves you and that he made some one for you. 'then you woudl be spending your time and energy to make your self into the best possible wife to this husband that you can be. Lioveing caring intleligent leared abiotu things that will help your martriage and life be successful.
DO you understnad.
there really is a gGO dand he reaelly loves you and if oyu can do it you can have better sex than most persons have but oyu must do it in the way that is safest and bets.
If you desire tyo have ahusband then that can be satisfied if you desire to have sex with just anyone then you wil never satisfy that desire.
DO you understand?

Well hope you do.