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Sex. . . what to say.

headoverheels Asked by headoverheels over 3 years ago, 7 answers.

I love my boyfriend, and he loves me. We are both virgins. We have done almost everything but sex. We are both 15. ( im trying to keep it short and to the point) He sometimes hints that he wants to have sex, I just dont want to make the commitment of...

birth control pills, I dunn have the money. I dont want to worry myself about it. I also dont think I'm ready, because I want to take it slow and I want it to be good and for me to be ready. What should I do or say to get him to know that I just don't want to? We have talked about, and he completely understands and never makes me do anything, he doesn't even ask. We even talked about sex and he knows where I stand, but I feel there is something im missing. CAN YOU HELP? Also, is there any other activities we can do, other than sex?

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 29, 2006, 08:19PM
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It sounds like you have a pretty good relationship with your boyfriend, and its wonderful that he's not pressuring you to do anything that you're not ready for. If you aren't ready to have sex with him, then you don't have to. If you think there's something missing, then that might be because you feel like the physical aspect of your relationship with your boyfriend is a little behind, but don't worry about it, there are lots of other ways to be intimate with guys that don't involve intercourse. Funmail me if you'd like, I know how you're feeling and would be happy to help. :-)

Answered by lovers2000 on Mar 29, 2006, 08:36PM
25 answers

i was a virgin till I was 20 and iam now married and have a son wait it will be worth it but if you think you might dont let him pressure please use a condom or birth control pills. Find a health dept or teen clinic they usally can give them to you free

Answered by babymommalove on Mar 29, 2006, 10:08PM
31 answers

well if you really love him and he loves you than he will wait. but you guys can always do foreplay. if you are into that kind of stuff anyway...you can always have oral sex with him its not a crime as people try to make it seem

Answered by wonderinghowandwhen on Mar 29, 2006, 11:37PM
34 answers

Fuck waiting. He is a 15 year old guy and of course he wants sex. Use a condom, or two if u'd like and go for it. Have fun you two!

Answered by savinme33 on Mar 29, 2006, 11:42PM

awww its good to hear that your boyfriend cares about your opinions! you sound like your on the right track, you might feel like something is missing though because you have the desire to... but don't do anything you're not ready for. idk if that answers your question however... sorry if it doesnt.

hi Answered by thamora on Jan 16, 2007, 10:36PM
29 answers

sweetie, if youre not ready, try to divert your attention to other activities. you must be the one to control the actions, stay away from situations that could get both of you on. be responsible when u wanna do it. you will be saved by your own self.

Answered by spade49 on Feb 17, 2007, 07:49PM
18 answers

Use A Condom Or Dont Do it At All Tell Him I Said Dont Be A Fool Wrap Your Tool lol

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