Sex still hurts and no orgasms

My boyfriend and I have had sex many times but it still hurts and no matter how hard we try I cant get an orgasm?

Are you using lots of lube? Also are you doing it slow still? Try checking out this answer I gave to someone else.

http://www.funadvice.com/?xq=8882

For some girls sex hurts for quite a long time until they get used to it and it stops hurting. Like snowboarder said, use a lot of lube and be gentle. And keep in mind that you may need a long time to stop feeling pain and even longer to get an orgasm. Just keep experimenting.

You could also try different positions, try checking out www.sexualpositionsfree.com they have 100's of positions on there, as well as do a ton of foreplay before hand to make sure you also have your own lube going on...

also you may be very tight down there and he might be very big but also keep in mind going slow will help you and u might wanna let your hun know