Sex? should I or shouldnt I?

Well, my boyfriend and I have been going out for nine months and I am completely in love with him and we can talk about anything. We have done E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G BUT SEX. Im sixteen and so is he, and we are both virgins, but there are many times when we...

were fooling around completely naked and knew we were'nt actually going to but it was a dry hump, and we were so close to sex. I want to because I am curious and Im getting these urges and so is he. We've agreed to put it off until we are both totally comfortable with it..
I want to take the pill but I just want to know what are my chances without it?
Also how do I get it? I dont want my mom to know and I dont know the cost either.
Anyways, should I have sex with him or not.
PS. if you have any birth control pill info that would be great!

All I have to say is that I am in like, that exact same situation (only we have nerver been COMPLETETLY naked with him :P) and I know what you are going through... god the urges are insane... anyway you may be ready but make sure you are on the pill for awhile or at least use condoms (maybe even both) It really isn't worth the risk, ya know? I know it can be hard... but reall you do just need to bring the pill up with your mom. Tell her it is "just in case" and that You would rather be on it now for "in the future" and so on. I know she'd rather suspect that you were having safe sex than find out that you are doing it unprotected. Many moms can be pretty understanding, you'd be suprised. My mom hasn't gotten me the pill yet, but she says she will after we talk about it some more. I hope for the best for you! (And for me, too... haha)

Do you really need your parents permission? Hmmm, where I live at 16 you can ask the doctor straight out and he is obliged by law to keep it between you and him. Try calling the doctors office anonymously and ask what age you have to be to get the pill prescribed without telling your parents. Tonguering is a hundred percent right though. If you think your ready then you better be prepared. If you can't get the pill then use condoms for sure because you have more then 70% chance of getting pregnant with unprotected sex (even the first time!!! yikes!) With those odds don't chance it, it's not worth it. And remember that unprotected sex is also the best way to get STD and HIV so please make sure to be clean and faithful!

I was 16 when I first had sex. Do I regret it? No. He was my boyfriend for about a year, and the rest is basically the same. I think if you have deeply thought about what the lost of your virginity truly means and you still want to have sex, go for it. Just be responsible. Definatly use a condom (PS don't double up, the friction between the condoms increased the chance that it will break). Make sure when you're done, because you're both rookies, that YOU look at the condom and make sure it hasn't broken or torn. About the pills, you can get them at your county's health clinic for free and your parent doesn't have to be there. I know because I went to the clinic when I was your age and I also went to planned parenthood. They even get very detailed and ask if and how they can contact you if necessary. P.S. I see my first boyfriend/sex partner from time to time, he was my patient at my job (I'm a nurse), I'm now 22. Our relationship is cool, his and byes, so I don't regret it. Hope this helps.
Amber

I say don't do it you might regrat in the fruture

ok I have been in the same situation as you, im 15 though. me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now but I waited until I was completely comfortable before I had sex with him and that was after we had been going out for about 9 and a half months. to answer your question about the pill you go to your gp and you do not need parental consent. and I believe that the pill is also free. without it you will probably get pregnant.

I believe that if you wait, then it will b much more special when you accually have sex with someone, maybe not him though. you may regret it, you may not. but it could go either way. who knows, you may not be mature enough to handle it. And as for the urges, just mas*erba*e - it may not be the same thing as having sex, but it works for some. And you dont necessarily have to have sex with each oher to conrol your urges. Just ask him to do other things that doesnt include complete intercourse

No never please , if you do , he will then run away for another taste---please wait tell his fianl decesion (marraige)