Sex,relation ships

im thirteen and im wanting to have sex with my boyfrien . i know to get birth control and use protection ,but when my boy friend comes over all he does is grab on me and we play around and thats it how do i make it porceed further?

Why are you pushing to have sex? Your just a KID!! Start acting like one. 13 yr olds do NOT go around having sex!! You are only gonna complicate your life, and you have NO clue what it all involves!! If you start having sex now, you are in for a rude awakening girl!! Guys will only use you when the word gets out!! You will also be known as a slut. Trust me, little boys talk!! So its your choice if you want to have a bad reputation, or be known as a respectful decent girl!! Virginity should be a young girls pride and joy. Cherish it until you are old enough to know the true meaning of LOVE!!

why do you want to? you are only 13!!!!!!!!!! please take some time out and think about things further becos the worst thing is doing it and then regretting it later and i think you are far to young to know the choices you make are right for you or wrong timing. Please be careful and think things thru becos you are just a baby still.

sex is not a game..it is a precious gift for married couples..otherwise you are going to get deeply hurt by doing it outside of marriage

hey im in the same situation and im 13 to.Everybody has told me the same thing.How old is your bf.Me and you need too Fun mail me

13 is too young to have sex. You need to take some time to think about it. Do not think of it as a way to kill/spend time until tomorrow. The after affects will last a LONG time afterwards......maybe even the rest of your life. After you think about it, you will realize that if all he is doing is grabbing at you and playing around, he himself is not ready. And if he thinks he is, then, he is not one to respect you now or afterwards. There is a WHOLE lot to learn/know about sex aside from the actual physical part.